L7 Cognitive Approaches Flashcards

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Cognitive theories

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  1. Top-down (focus)
    - theories of thinking
  2. Bottom-up
    - specific situations
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Top-down theories

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Thinking about the world and SWB

Epictetus
- Men are disturbed not by things. but by the views they take of them

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Bottom-up Theories

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Events and circumstances influencing SWB

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Positivity Bias of Happy People

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Sense of control, most others are good, the world is beautiful, sense of relative invulnerability, positive view of the world, optimistic about the future

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Optimists

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Carver and Scheier
- enjoy better health, cope better with stress, less bp reactivity to stress, recover faster from bypass surgery, have less postpartum depression, have fewer symptoms during end semester

Vaillant

  • Harvard grads 1946
  • optimists healthier in 1980

So much in attitudes/outlook
- glass half-full or half-empty?

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AIM

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Theory of thinking and happiness

  1. Attention
  2. Interpretation
  3. Memory
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Attention

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Classification into a group is enough
- ex. with in group vs. out group

Attention is selective- there are both good and bad things out there on which one can focus
- ex. gorilla experiment

Bryant- savoring
- happier people tend to have momentos handy (pictures on walls)
Lyobomirsky & Nolen-Hoeksema
- ruminating- thinking about the bad memories- makes us less happy

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Interpretation

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Interpretation is different

  • two people may see exact same event positively vs. negatively
    ex. Dartmouth and Princeton football game

Good and bad things, unambiguous
Neutral things- Weiss scale
Small thins people say may be interpreted according to mood
- ex. small comment may be the tipping point

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Coping Strategies

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Resilience
Research by Costa and McCrae

  1. Happy people
    - rational action, seeking help, self-adaptation, humor, faith
  2. Unhappy people
    - hostile reactions, escapist fantasies, wishful thinking, indecisiveness, self-blame
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Memory

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Research

  • colonoscopies, vacations, dating partner
  • how you remember an event is predictor of whether you’ll repeat it
  • how you remember your mood with your partner determines if you will stay together
Memory is selective:
Bryant- savoring
- momentos handy, pictures on walls
Lyobomirsky & Nolen-Hoeksema
- ruminating and NA
ex. two drunk grad students at a party
- move on!
- unhappy people keep repeating the negative event, even though it serves no purpose
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Comparative Standards

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When we react to events, we compare them to standards

  • our goals and ideals
  • social comparison- others
  • our past- are we doing better or worse?
    ex. income changes (10K to 40K, elated; 100K to 40K panicked)
  • needs (relatively innate standards)
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Goals

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Goals should be high but also realistic
- determined how we’ll react to a situation
ex. Jon shoots for passing, gets a B- elated
June shoots for an A+, gets a B- disappointed and dissatisfied

Lofty goals can make us aim high but also be disappointed - dilemma

The goal is to do your best, be really good at what you’re doing, to try hard
- in this case, success is in your control

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Social comparison

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Can influence our satisfaction
- income- others in one's workplace
But many causes of SWM (love) are not comparative
Neurotics compare a lot
Social support crucial
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Relative income

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Rich people are happier than poor people but the wealth of the country in general is also highly influential
- people that live in rich countries are happier

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Adaptation

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Good and bad things happen, but the we adapt
- bad events- good to adapt
- good events- can react to new good events
Unemployment is the exception
- we never fully adapt
Declining marginal utility- a form of adaptation
- things decline in value as one gets more of them, each added unit is worth less for SWB

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Failure to adapt to where you live

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Experience anger and depression vs. enjoyment

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Positive mental outlook

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The habit of seeing the glass half full
Seeing opportunities, not threats
Generally trusting and liking oneself and others

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Negative mental outlook

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  • Awfulizing- people exaggerate how negative an event/person is
  • distress intolerance- people underestimate their ability to recover from a painful event
  • learned helplessness- people simply give up because they feel they have no power to change negative circumstances
  • perfectionism- people strive to be faultless rather than just successful, pay more attention to the small details that went wrong than the big picture of everything that went right
  • negative self-fulfilling expectancies- one draws negative responses from others by communicating that one expects a negative reaction
  • rejection goggles- cause people to see rejection everywhere, even in normal encounters, even the most minor rejection can be seen as a major slight
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3 elements of self-compassion

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Neff

  1. self-kindness
    - understanding, not punishment
  2. sense of common humanity
    - everybody goes through this
  3. mindfulness
    - neither ignoring nor exaggerating feelings of failure
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Automatic negative thoughts

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can be traps
thoughts -> feelings -> situations

Restructuring
- catch yourself, be mindful, generate more realistic trap

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Thought traps

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  1. all of nothing
  2. excuses
  3. should’ve…
  4. not as good
  5. give up