Issues of Relationships Flashcards
What are the features + purposes of an Orthodox wedding ceremony?
- Crowning of the bride and groom: king and queen, reign over future family (children)
- Drink from the same cup: companionship
- Each receive a lit candle: God is present
- Put rings on each other’s fingers 3 times: companionship
- Rituals repeated 3 times: trinity, shows love in front of God
- Jesus “I am the light of the world”
What are 4 features + purposes of the Anglican wedding ceremony?
- Vows: better of for worse, in sickness and in health, til death do us part: companionship
- Vicar sets purposes of marriage in his opening speech: “be fruitful and increase”, “may be blessed in having children”
- “What God has joined, man must not separate: God is present”
- “Vicar blesses the marriage: God is present”
- “We are gathered here today in the presence of God”: opening speech, God is present
- Vicar binds hands together: companionship
What are purposes of marriage that are supported by the Anglican church?
Having children
Unconditional love for one another
Safe place for sex
Building block of the community
Support and comfort for each other
How does the marriage service show that marriage is a safe place for sex?
- “Go forth and multiply”, “two become one flesh”
- Service “With my body, I honour you”
How does the marriage service show that a purpose of marriage is to raise children as Christian
“Children are not lacking”, “go forth and multiply”
Service, “bring up children in accordance of God’s will”
How does the marriage service show that marriage is to confirm love in front of God?
- Orthodox, light candles, circle table 3 times for Trinity, exchange rings 3 times. tie crowns together
- “What God has joined, man must not separate”
- Anglican, “we are gathered here today in the presence of God”
- Service “to love each other for the rest of our lives and be there for each other”
- “To have and to hold”, tie hands together
- “Till death do us part”
Why would some people argue that cohabitation is better than marriage?
- Divorce is very expensive, rate of divorces in England is increasing
- Can show commitment in other ways (ie have children)
Why would some people argue marriage is better than cohabitation?
- Legal contract, gives security
- Public occasion, receives support of the community
- Blessed by God (Christians)
What are biblical passages which support marriage?
- “What God has joined, man must not separate”
- Jesus: “A man leaves his mother and father, joins with his wife, and the two become one flesh”
- St Paul: “Husbands love your wife’s as Christ loved the church”
- Proverbs “Who can find a good wife, her worth is far beyond red coral, her husband’s whole trust is in her”
When can interfaith marriage come into conflict?
- Celebrations of festivals: Christmas or Wesak
- Which beliefs children should follow: Samsara/karma + Nirvana or Heaven and Hell
- Ethical views: Buddhist who follows first precept (do not harm living beings) or Christian who follows dominionship
- Practices: going to the temple to chant/meditate or church for Holy Communion
Why do Catholics disagree with divorce or remarriage but allow annulment and separation?
- Jesus, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another, commits adultery against her”
- Jesus, “What God has joined man must not separate”
- Marriage is a sacrament- sacred ceremony where God is present
- Goes against wedding vows “Til death do us part”
What are the 7 sacraments? (Orthodox and Catholic)
- Baptism
- Confirmation
- Eucharist/Mass (weekly)
- Penance
- Holy orders (priesthood etc)
- Marriage
- Anointing of the sick
What are the 2 Sacraments of the Anglican Church?
- Baptism
- Eucharist
Why do Liberal Christians allow divorce and remarriage?
- Jesus, “whoever divorces his wife and marries another, except for marital unfaithfulness, commits adultery against her” (allows for unfaithfulness”
- Jesus, “treat others how you would like to be treated”
- Church statements: Anglican church said in sad and painful circumstances, Divorce may be the most loving thing
- Jesus, “Forgive 70 x 7”
- Jesus, “Forgive them father, for they know not what they do”
Why do Evangelical Christians disagree with sex before marriage?
- St Paul, “The sexually immoral will not enter the Kingdom of Heaven”
- St Paul, “If the married cannot control themselves, then they should be married”
- Jesus, “A man will leave his mother and father, join with his wife and the two become one flesh” (marriage first, then have sex)