Intro Flashcards
Intro
The speed seducers want to ask: what emotional states do I want attractive women to experience with me?
One fatal mistake is many men focus on behavior- they’ll say: how do I get Debbie to go out with me? Or how can I get Debbie to sleep with me? As opppsed to saying: what are the emotional states I want Debbie to be in when she’s thinking of me and around me, so that these behaviors just flow out of her natural state?
When women are in certain emotional states, they’re far more likely to eagerly give us those behaviors we’re seeking.
Unfortunately, if you’re a really nice guy, usually the emotional states are casual comfort, some mild enjoyment or maybe even boredom. The key is emotional states. U don’t wanna be her friend or worse yet, her therapist.
Ask yourself: “how is this communication designed to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions?”
RJ encourages us to chant: “dating is for women I’m already sleeping with” you don’t need a formal date to sleep with someone. Dating may actually get in the way, because she’s conditioned by society to have a checklist of things she likes and doesn’t like and she’s putting you up against that checklist. It’s never about where you take her or what you spend. It’s about how u use your language and get her talking. What can u get her talking about to capture her emotions and lead her imagination. If she’s feeling turned on and connecting, you can be in an alley and it won’t matter.
Are women aware of how they create their emotions? Nope. Because they’re not consciously aware of how they get attracted, turned on, ect.. it can almost operate hypnotically.
