Intimacy, Love, & Sexuality Flashcards
According to Erikson, what needs to preceded intimacy?
Identity
According to Erikson’s Theory of Psychosocial development, what stage are emerging adults in?
intimacy vs. isolation
What is the challenge of the intimacy vs. isolation stage?
Developing an intimate relationship without compromising one’s own individuality.
What is the difference between Erikson’s theory and Sullivan’s theory?
Erikson: identity then intimacy
Sullivan: intimacy then identity
Describe Sullivan’s Interpersonal Theory.
Stages reflect changing interpersonal needs and social relationships.
Describe Sullivan’s pre-adolescence stage.
Need for intimacy
- gain a sense of well-being by first developing friendships
- provides confidence to give and receive intimate thoughts and feelings
Describe Sullivan’s early adolescence stage.
Need for sexuality
- increasing romantic and sexual desires
- desires for close interpersonal relationships
- goal is to find a partner who can also be an intimate friend
What is accomplished by achieving Sullivan’s stages?
- contributes to sense of self
Describe the change in intimacy from childhood to adolescence to emerging adulthood.
Childhood/Adolescence: friends are the main source of intimacy
Adolescence/Emerging Adulthood: romantic partner becomes main source of intimacy
What are 4 good features of romantic relationships?
- more intense positive emotions
- sexual activity
- being cared for partner
- having social companion
What are 4 bad features of romantic relationships?
- more intense negative emotions
- more social constraints
- emotional vulnerability
- more conflict than friendship
What are the problems with concrete categorizations of relationships vs. friendships.
- friends with benefits have elements of both
- asexuality
- flirtation-ships
Why is there an increase in romantic relationships as age increases?
- increased pressure to be in romantic relationship
- increased sexual desire
- exploration of gender roles
- parent’s rules
- more independence
- seeking more mature activity
What is consensual validation?
We like to find other who are in agreement with our own characteristics or view of life
- validates beliefs/opinions
- reduces conflict
What are the 3 fundamental qualities in Sternberg’s Theory of Love?
- Passion
- Intimacy
- Commitment