Interview/Helping Relationship Flashcards
Qualities in The Helping Relationship
- Caring - Focus is on client and his or her needs
- Trust - The client can rely on the communications and actions of their clinician.
- Mutuality - This means that the helper and client are “on the same page.” There is an agreement between the client and nurse regarding what the goals (client-centered) are and how these will be achieved.
- Empowerment - Reflects respect – the helper conveys the belief in the client’s ability and competence
- Warmth - Makes our clients feel welcome, appreciated and accepted.
- Respect - Acknowledges the fact that we value the “other”
- Genuineness - Presenting your true thoughts and feelings verbally and non-verbally with communication that is congruent
- Self-disclosure - honest communication, revealing relevant aspects of one’s experiences, including personal thoughts, feelings and values.
- Humour
- Empathy
Ways to show respect to a patient
Look at your client
Provide undivided attention
Maintain eye contact
Smile
Move toward the other
Find out how the other likes to be addressed
Use the client’s name and introduce yourself
Make contact – handshake, gently touch arm
Protect confidentiality
Show interest and concern in your clients’ problems
Accept their uniqueness
Accept the client as a partner
Accommodate cultural and social differences
Be courteous and attentive
Work diligently and competently
Genuiness
Presenting your true thoughts and feelings verbally and non-verbally with communication that is congruent. Being genuine means being authentic.
Means not hiding behind a role or title
Means not responding in scripted ways
Means not being defensive
Means recognizing the “equal humanness” between themselves and their clients
“Being real”
If the helper is not genuine, the client may:
Distrust the helper
Become suspicious of the helper
May become confused
May question the helper’s credibility
May believe the helper is “hiding something”
This may result in a strained relationship and it blocks meaningful interaction
Mutuality
- This means that the helper and client are “on the same page.” There is an agreement between the client and nurse regarding what the goals (client-centered) are and how these will be achieved.
- Partnership.
- Maintain the partnership by consistently checking in with your client. Don’t take over.
- There is a risk of taking over if nurses are overburdened, if the nurse lacks self-awareness, if the client is passive, and/or if the nurse has a more aggressive personality.
Benifits to using humour
Puts people at ease
Effective way to deal with fear and anxiety
The helper appears more human and genuine
Build bridges between people
If the helper can laugh at themselves, they model the belief that no-one is perfect.
Phases of the Therapeutic Relationship
- Pre-interaction
- Orientation
- Working
- Termination
Pre-Initiation Phase
Period of self-reflection and preparation:
- roles
- expectations and tasks
- helping approaches
- personal values
- perceptions that you hold that may help or hinder the helping relationship
Preparation of the physical setting so it is physically and psychologically comfortable
Orientation Phase
- Begins at first meeting –establish rapport and create structure.
When you first meet:
-Explain who you are
-Describe what your role is
-Identify what you will be doing
-Indicate when and under what circumstances the relationship will take place
-Explain why you are working with the person – define the purpose of the relationship
-Assessment of client’s needs begins.
-Definition of goals which are client-centered and meaningful are developed together.
-Remember…you are creating a partnership with your client.
-Therapeutic contract.
Woring Phase
- Focus on using helping interventions, including effective interpersonal communication to resolve problems and issues, as well as to enhance self-concept
- Trust is essential to the working phase.
- Less directive – partnership is evident.
- Clinician provides information and client makes decisions regarding interventions.
- allow client to share information about self
- show interest in the client’s assessment of situation
- elicit opinion and input throughout
- discuss various ways others can be involved and involve person (e.g. goal development, “treatment” selection, referrals, etc.).
- check out your assessment with other professionals working with the client (consult with team).
- be honest/transparent with client.
Termination Phase
Begin to prepare for termination during the orientation phase.
Client (and helper as appropriate) can share thoughts and feelings about termination.
Engage in mutual evaluation of goal accomplishment.
Helper says good-bye.
Follow-up interventions are identified as needed.
Broad opening statements
Please feel free to discuss your concerns with me.
Tell me more about that.
Broad opening questions
What would you like to discuss?
What has brought you to see me today?
Can you tell me more about that?
Open ended questions
can be used at the beginning of an interaction (broad opening) or throughout the interaction, when you want more information from the client.
Require more than a minimal or one-word answer.
Places the focus on the client.
e.g. How do you think you will cope with your retirement?
What were you thinking about when you suddenly left our session last week?
Closed questions
are used to obtain a brief answer, usually just “yes” or “no”.
Good for gathering specific information.
Examples:
How many brothers or sisters do you have?
Are you feeling like you want to harm yourself?