interpersonal communication Flashcards
norms
guidelines for behaviors
roles
guidelines for subsets of certain groups, give predictability to relationships
expected vs enacted roles
how you’re supposed to act vs how you actually act
inter-role conflict
conflict in single domain of life (aka work)
intra-role conflict
occurs across multiple domains of life (aka work and family)
disclosure
what you choose to share and how you share things in relationship, shapes relationship significantly
johari window
open- known to self and others
hidden- known to self but not to others
blind- known to others but not to self
unknown- not known to self or others
social penetration theory
how we develop disclosure and how much we share in relationships
breadth-array of topics
depth- deep personal thoughts
frequency- how often you talk
uncertainty reduction theory
initial interactions prompt us to ask questions/learn more info to figure out if we want to get to know them more
dialectic tensions
two things we need but they contradict one another
autonomy vs connection- independent but connected
expressiveness vs privacy
change vs predictability