communications in realtionships Flashcards

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factors that drive human attraction

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liking, reciprocity, similarity, proximity, attractivness

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staircase model stages of relationship

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going up
initiating, experimenting, intensifying, integrating, bonding
going down
differentiating, circumscribing, stagnating, avoiding, terminating

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3
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marital styles

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traditionals- interdependent use of time and space, moderate conflict on big issues
independent- less conventional style, more conflict, time spent separately
separates- traditional attitude, independent, low conflict high negativity

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4
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relational maintenance 5:1

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5 positive reactions to every 1 negative reaction

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5
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terminating relationships

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negative identity management- intentional sabotage
de-escalation- lets just be friends
justification- rationalizing the end
positive tone- you deserve better
behavioral de-escalation- avoiding
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6
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terminating friendships

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withdrawal/avoidance
openness
machiaviallian tactics- involving others in the end

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7
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alternative approach to marriage

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43% said they could beta test their marriage for 2 years

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8
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social information processing theory

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lack of nonverbal cues changes online interaction, bonds may take longer to form
hyperpersonalization- people may disclose MORE to ffset the distance of the internet

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