communications in realtionships Flashcards
factors that drive human attraction
liking, reciprocity, similarity, proximity, attractivness
staircase model stages of relationship
going up
initiating, experimenting, intensifying, integrating, bonding
going down
differentiating, circumscribing, stagnating, avoiding, terminating
marital styles
traditionals- interdependent use of time and space, moderate conflict on big issues
independent- less conventional style, more conflict, time spent separately
separates- traditional attitude, independent, low conflict high negativity
relational maintenance 5:1
5 positive reactions to every 1 negative reaction
terminating relationships
negative identity management- intentional sabotage de-escalation- lets just be friends justification- rationalizing the end positive tone- you deserve better behavioral de-escalation- avoiding
terminating friendships
withdrawal/avoidance
openness
machiaviallian tactics- involving others in the end
alternative approach to marriage
43% said they could beta test their marriage for 2 years
social information processing theory
lack of nonverbal cues changes online interaction, bonds may take longer to form
hyperpersonalization- people may disclose MORE to ffset the distance of the internet