Interpersonal Attraction Flashcards

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why is there a need for affiliation (theories)

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  1. self determination theory
  2. sociometer theory
  3. attachment theory
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self determination theory

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theory of motivation that addresses the issues of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation

people have innate psychological needs; only when these needs are met then people will function and grow optimally, hence, social environment needs to nurture these needs

  • Competence
  • Relatedness
  • Autonomy
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attachment theory

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  1. Bowly: attachment system
  2. Ainsworth: attachment type
    (responsiveness and sensitivity)
  3. Hazan & Shaver: love as attachment process

Internal working models

  • working models of self
  • working models of others
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Loneliness

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  • Emotional loneliness
    leads the person to seek a one-to-one intimate relationship
  • Social loneliness
    motivates the person to seek out activities he/she might participate in
  • Quantity vs. Quality
  • Amount of time spent in social interaction, number of friends
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factors of Liking

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  • Reciprocity of liking
  • Proximity
  • Familiarity
  • Similarity
  • Complementary
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Why does proximity lead to liking?

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  • availabilit
  • cognitive consistnecy striving (expectation of future interaction)

however, limits include

  • too negative to be corrected by consistency motivation
  • proximity might intensify antagonism
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Why does familiarity lead to liking?

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  • evolutionary explanation
  • predictability
  • assumed similarity
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Experiment to show similarity

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newcomb’s undergraduate roommate study

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Why does similarity lead to liking?

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  • cognitive consistency striving
  • validation
  • inferred evaluation
  • ease of interaction
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theory in similarity of physical attractiveness

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matching hypothesis

explanation: people like those similar to them, explain by balance theory

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cognitive consistency striving

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humans are motivated by inconsistency, desire to change them

e.g conflict with others, desire to change them

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Sternbergs triangular theory of love

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  • consummate
  • passionate
  • companionate

components of love change over time, due to the changing nature of relationships

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jealousy

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reaction to the 
- percieved threat to the\
- continuity 
- quality 
of a relationship
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factors affecting jealously

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  • individual differences

- gender differences (sexual vs. emotional infidelity and its evolutionary interpretation)

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factors affecting individual differences in jealousy

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  1. dependency
  2. having few alternative relationships
  3. more insecure
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inferred evaluation

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people compare the actions with alternative actions to evaluate the choices they have made

17
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sociometer theory

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self-esteem is used as a gauge of interpersonal relationships

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facial features that make someone more attractive

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  • large eyes
  • high cheekbones
  • small, thin jaw (large jaws) for men
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social exchange theory vs. operant conditioning

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in operant conditioning,
reinforcements: increases the likelihood of responding, punishment- decreases likelihood

hence, rewards in relationships is similar to reinforcements

main diff: social exchange has a standard that partners base their expectations on (comparison level)

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comparison level

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  • difference between rewards and cost
  • and, the history of other relationships

comparison level for alternatives: what you will expect from an alternative

21
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difference between investment and social exchange theory

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investment: consider how much they have invested in the relationship

22
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bowlby: attachment type

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a strong attachment to caregiver provides necessary sense of security and foundation

23
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mental representations

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internal working models

  • working model of self
  • working model of others
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“what is beautiful is good” stereotype

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mental representation of people that are good looking having better associated traits

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love at first sight

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love on a bridge

misattribution of heightened arousal