Interpersonal Attraction Flashcards
why is there a need for affiliation (theories)
- self determination theory
- sociometer theory
- attachment theory
self determination theory
theory of motivation that addresses the issues of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation
people have innate psychological needs; only when these needs are met then people will function and grow optimally, hence, social environment needs to nurture these needs
- Competence
- Relatedness
- Autonomy
attachment theory
- Bowly: attachment system
- Ainsworth: attachment type
(responsiveness and sensitivity) - Hazan & Shaver: love as attachment process
Internal working models
- working models of self
- working models of others
Loneliness
- Emotional loneliness
leads the person to seek a one-to-one intimate relationship - Social loneliness
motivates the person to seek out activities he/she might participate in - Quantity vs. Quality
- Amount of time spent in social interaction, number of friends
factors of Liking
- Reciprocity of liking
- Proximity
- Familiarity
- Similarity
- Complementary
Why does proximity lead to liking?
- availabilit
- cognitive consistnecy striving (expectation of future interaction)
however, limits include
- too negative to be corrected by consistency motivation
- proximity might intensify antagonism
Why does familiarity lead to liking?
- evolutionary explanation
- predictability
- assumed similarity
Experiment to show similarity
newcomb’s undergraduate roommate study
Why does similarity lead to liking?
- cognitive consistency striving
- validation
- inferred evaluation
- ease of interaction
theory in similarity of physical attractiveness
matching hypothesis
explanation: people like those similar to them, explain by balance theory
cognitive consistency striving
humans are motivated by inconsistency, desire to change them
e.g conflict with others, desire to change them
Sternbergs triangular theory of love
- consummate
- passionate
- companionate
components of love change over time, due to the changing nature of relationships
jealousy
reaction to the - percieved threat to the\ - continuity - quality of a relationship
factors affecting jealously
- individual differences
- gender differences (sexual vs. emotional infidelity and its evolutionary interpretation)
factors affecting individual differences in jealousy
- dependency
- having few alternative relationships
- more insecure