Human Behaviour in the Social Environment Flashcards
In the family life cycle, can stages be skipped? What are the implications?
- Skills CAN be learned in later stages if missed in an earlier one … However…
○ Mastering skills and milestones of each stage allows successful movement from one stage of development to the next
○ If not mastered, more likely to have difficulty with relationships and future transitions - Successful transitioning may also help to prevent disease and emotional or stress-related disorders
What can disrupt the normal life cycle?
Stress of daily living, ongoing stress, coping with chronic conditions, other life crises (illness, financial problems, death etc.)
What are the EIGHT stages in the Family Life Cycle?
- Family of Origin Experiences
- Leaving Home
- Pre-Marriage Stage
- Childless Couple Stage
- Family with Young Children
- Family with Adolescents
- Launching Children
- Later Family Life
What are the tasks in Stage 1 of the FLC - Family of Origin Experiences?
- Maintaining relationships with parents, siblings & peers
- Completing education
- Developing the foundations of a family life
- Completing education
What are the tasks in Stage 2 of the FLC - Leaving Home
- Differentiating self from family of origin and parents and developing adult-to-adult relationships with parents
- Developing intimate peer relationships
- Beginning work, developing work identity and financial independence
- Developing intimate peer relationships
What are the tasks in Stage 3 of the FLC - Pre Marriage Stage
- Selecting Partners
- Developing a Relationship
- Deciding to establish own home with someone
What are the tasks in Stage 4 of the FLC - Childless Couple Stage
- Developing a way to live together both practically and emotionally
- Adjusting relationships with families of origin and peers to include partner
What are the tasks in Stage 5 of the FLC - Family with Young Children
- Realigning family system to make space for children
- Adopting/developing parenting roles
- Realigning relationships with families of origin to include parenting and grandparenting roles
- Facilitating children to develop peer relationships
What are the tasks in Stage 6 of the FLC - Family With Adolescents
- Adjusting parent-child relationships to allow adolescents more autonomy
- Adjusting family relationships to focus on midlife relationship and career issues
- Taking on responsibility of caring for families of origin
- Adjusting family relationships to focus on midlife relationship and career issues
What are the tasks in Stage 7 of the FLC - Launching Children
- Resolving midlife issues
- Negotiating adult-to-adult relationships with children
- Adjusting to living as a couple again
- Adjusting to including in-laws and grandchildren within the family circle
- Dealing with disabilities and death in family of origin
What are the tasks in Stage 8 of the FLC - Later Family Life
- Coping with physiological decline in self and others
- Adjusting to children taking a more central role in family maintenance
- Valuing the wisdom and experience of the elderly
- Dealing with the loss of spouse and peers
- Preparing for death, life review and reminiscence
What are Family Dynamics and what are their impacts?
Family Dynamics: Patterns of relating or interactions between family members.
- Each families dynamics are unique, some common patterns - Even with little/no present contact there is still an influence from dynamics from previous years - Often have a strong influence on how individuals see themselves, others, the world & influence their relationships, behaviours, and well being - Understanding of the impact of family dynamics on a client's self perception may help SW pinpoint and respond to the driving forces behind their current needs - Significantly impact client's biological, psych, social functioning + & -
What is Healthy Functioning in a family characterized by?
- Treating each member as an individual
- Having regular routines & structure
- Being connected to extended family, friends, & community
- Having realistic expectations
- Spending quality time (fun, relaxed, conflict-free)
- Ensuring members take care of own needs and not just family needs
- Helping one another through example & direct assistance
What are the core factors of Theories of Couple Development?
- Significant variability but some predictable stages that characterize intimate relationships
- Developmental - growth
- Stages are not linear, can go backwards
- Homosexual couples go through these stages but have unique challenges
(Fewer public role models, concerns about acceptance, secrecy, concerns over safety , separation from family)
What are the 5 stages of Couple Development?
- Romance
- Power Struggle
- Stability
- Commitment
- Co-Creation
What are the characteristics of Stage 1 of Couple Development - Romance
- Introduction, common interests, attraction
- Conversations & dates to learn about partner
- Focus is attachment
- Passion, nurturing, selfless attention to needs of others
- Differences minimized and partners place few demands on each other
- Romantic bond is foundation & critical to health of the relationship in the future
- Symbiotic/Mutualistic relationships - not unique
What are the characteristics of Stage 2 of Couple Development - Power Struggle
- Recognizing differences and unique needs
- Defining oneself and managing conflict
- Greater separation and loss of romance from self-expression
- Focus on differences instead of similarities
- Time away often needed
- Differentiation (distinction within the relationship) bust be managed
- Critical effort must be made to balance self-discovery with intimacy
- To ‘survive’ this stage, individuals must acknowledge differences, learn to share power, forfeit fantasies of harmony and accept partners without needing to change them
What are the characteristics of Stage 3 of Couple Development - Stability
- Redirection of personal attention, time, and activities away from partners and towards one’s self
- Focus on personal needs while respecting others
- Autonomy & Individuality are key
- More mature, compromise
- Mirrors “practicing” phase of separation-individuation in infant development (exploring independence but still part of a couple)
- “Rapprochement” - crisis that threaten their identities or separateness, may rely more heavily on companionship and intimacy
- Still back and forth between intimacy and independence with ultimate goal being intimacy that doesn’t sacrifice separateness
What are the characteristics of Stage 4 of Couple Development - Commitment
- Marriage is ideal at this stage but often occurs earlier - perhaps why divorce rates so high
- Recognize that they want to be together and the good outweighs the bad
What are the characteristics of Stage 5 of Couple Development - Co-Creation
- Constancy (faithful, dependable)
- Foundation is no longer personal need but appreciation and love, support and respect for mutual growth
- Work on projects together (similar to Erikson’s generativity vs. stagnation)
- Create or nurture things that are enduring, creating positive change that benefits others
What are the Impacts of Physical & Mental Illness on Family Dynamics?
- Places an extra set of demands on family systems
- Can consume a lot of family resources, time, energy, money – other needs may go unmet
- Can take up physical & emotional energy - strain, guilt, worry, anger, uncertainty
- Knowing about available services/resources a major challenge – eligibility & coordination of different services – SW can help
- Many communities lack services/programs/facilities
- Burden of stigma, judgement, rejection
- Impact can be little or profound
- Affects all aspects of functioning
- Can require sacrifices from other family members that impact their own well being
- Desire to put the incident “behind them” - a denial of an ongoing change
- Some may understand the illness while others do not - causing tension, isolation, loss of meaningful relationships
- Stigma may make family members reluctant to discuss the illness
- May believe the condition to be totally disabling which isn’t necessarily true
- May need info from SW about how to plan and manage the illness
- If illness is not stable families bounce between crises feeling a lack of control
Define Defense Mechanisms
Defense Mechanisms: behaviours that protect people from anxiety – automatic, involuntary, usually unconscious —- NOT THE SAME AS COPING STRATEGIES WHICH ARE VOLUNTARY
Define Acting Out
emotional conflict dealt with through actions instead of feelings (getting in trouble to get attention rather than talking about feeling neglected)
Define Compensation
Enables one to make up for real/imagined deficiencies (stutter - very expressive writer)
Define Conversion
repressed urge is expressed, disguised as a disturbance of body function – usually sensory, voluntary nervous system. (pain, deafness, blindness, paralysis, convulsions, tics)
Define Decompensation
deterioration of existing defenses
Define Devaluation
frequently used by those with borderline personality disorder - attributing exaggerated negative qualities to self or another. Split of primitive idealization
Define Dissociation
a process that enables a person to split mental functions in a manner that allows them to express forbidden/unconscious impulses without taking responsibility either because they can’t remember or because it is not experienced as their own (pathologically expressed as fugue states, amnesia, or dissociative neurosis, daydreaming)
Define Identification
universal mechanism whereby a person patterns themselves after a significant other. Plays a major role in personality development, especially superego development.
Define Identification with the Aggressor
mastering anxiety by identifying with a powerful aggressor (such as an abusing parent) to counteract feelings of helplessness and to feel powerful oneself. Usually involves behaving like the aggressor (i.e., abusing others
after one has been abused oneself).
Define Incorporation
primitive mechanism in which psychic representation of a person is (or parts of a person are) figuratively ingested.
Define Inhibition
loss of motivation to engage in (usually pleasurable) activity avoided because it might stir up conflict over forbidden impulses (i.e., writing, learning, or work blocks or social shyness).
Define Introjection
loved or hated external objects are symbolically absorbed within self (converse of projection; i.e., in severe depression, unconscious unacceptable hatred is turned toward self).