HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT

Question 1

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 1

Answer 1

Begin with praise and honest appreciation

Question 2

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 2

Answer 2

Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly

Question 3

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 3

Answer 3

Talk about your own mistakes before criticising other person

Question 4

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 4

Answer 4

Ask questions instead of giving direct orders

Question 5

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 5

Answer 5

Let the other person save face

Question 6

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 6

Answer 6

Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise”

Question 7

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 7

Answer 7

Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to

Question 8

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 8

Answer 8

Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct

Question 9

HOW TO CHANGE PEOPLE WITHOUT GIVING OFFENCE OR AROUSING RESENTEMENT - Principle 9

Answer 9

Make the other person happy doing the thing you suggest