family and gender Flashcards
“between 2 worlds”
documentary
- generation and culture gap issues
- pressure from parents
types of acculturations across generations
- consonant resistance to acculturation
- consonant acculturation
- dissonant acculturattion
- selective acculturation
resistence to consonant acculturation
definition
both parents and children are separated and isolated within the ethnic or immigrant community
consonant acculturation
definition
both children and parents search for acceptance into mainstream society
dissonant acculturation
definition
first gen parents want to maintain ethnic ties while children seek to abandon ethnic community
selective acculturation
definition
first gen and children learn the culture and language of the dominant society but still have close ties and respect for the ethnic community
- this is the most healthy intergenationally
effects of immigration and acculturation
- acculturative stress
- intergenerational households and filial piety
- language brokering and “parentified children”
- differing or clashing around parenting
challenges confronting the immigrant family
- disruption of extended family and friendship networks
- role changes within family
- generation culture gap
culture gap
sensitive pressure point
children’s filial responsibility is debt of life owed through obedience/submission to elders
work ethic
sensitive pressure point
children work 2x harder than their peers to please their parents, who still don’t think their kids work hard enough
multigenerational households
asian americans are more likely than whites to live in multigenerational families
prevalence and timing of marriage
more asian americans are married than others in same age range
- already came married
tend to marry later than white people
anti-miscegenation laws
- laws that criminalized interracial marriage as a felony
- loving v. virginia (1967) ended the law
explanations for intermarriage
- individual choice: people love who they love
- marriage markets: depends on how many co-ethnics are around
- marital assimilation: once a group is marrying out, there’s assimilation
- hypergamy theory: tendency for women to marry “up”
- stereotype effect: not a lot of asian american leading roles –> hard for people to them as attractive
intersectional approach
asian american women construct their gender in both ethnic immigrant cultural norms and those of the euro-centric mainstream
pressures for asian american women
- confucian moral code: male superiority, authority, and power over women in family and social relations, has influences the patriarchal systems of korea and vietnam
- shift in gender arrangements (wives having to work + come home and cook afterwards)
women
patriarchy reinforces male privilege by prescribing bounded roles for women, often in domestic-related duties
- son preference over daughters
media images of asian american women
- lotus blossom: chastitity, powerless, sexual availability
- dragon lady: decieving, conniving, utilizing sexuality for advantage
- hyper-sexualization in subservient roles
domestic violence
need more raising of awareness and ending silence around it
- 42% of asian americans know an abused woman
- up to 55% of AAPI experience some sort of physical/sexual violence in lifetime
barriers to domestic violence
five barriers
- victim blaming
- financial
- language barrier
- cultural/religious expectations
- immigration status
can’t be addressed by traditional approaches
conceptions of beauty
trying to fit into western notions of beauty
sign of internalizing gener ideology that validates monetary and time investment
internalized racism
definition
believing stereotypes and myths about their own race
internalized sexism
believing stereotypes and myths about their own sex
- personal level → results in low self-esteem, colorism, stereotyping, self-hatred
- structural level → results in decision making, resources, standard, naming the problem
depression and suicide
- suicide is 3rd leading cause of death among young americans ages 15-24
- asian american women have highest rate of depressive symptoms of all racial groups