Family Flashcards
Parents are seen as:
Direct instructors Social managers Indirect socialisers (learning through observation)
Two dimensions of parenting
Warmth & Demandingness
Authoritarian
Low warmth, high demandingness
Cold and unresponsive
Expect compliance
Threats and punishment
Outcomes:
Poor social skills
Low academic achievment
Low self-esteem
Authoritative
High warmth, high demandingness Warm and responsive Consistent in discipline Set limits Give autonomy
Outcomes: Psychological competence High self-esteem High academic achievment Popular with peers Low behavioural issues
Permissive
High warmth, low demandingness
Responsive to child’s needs
Lack of limits & discipline
Not consistent
Outcomes:
Impulsive
Lack of self control
Poor academic achievment
Neglectful
Low warmth, low demandingness
Focused on own needs
Unresponsive
No limits set
Outcomes:
Attachment issues
Internalising/externalising problems
Poor academic achievment
Significance of parenting styles in research
Only moderately associated
Most robust findings with neglectful & authoritative
Other factors affect outcome
Studies are correlational and don’t assume causation
Most research carried out in white, intact families
Other moderators of child outcome
Child temperament Culture/ethnicity Neighbourhood Social support Gender
Harris - parents don’t play a role in development
Parent child conflict adolescence
Follows U shape - highest in adolescence
Management aids successful transition to adulthood
Children find it more difficult to cope with conflict
Intense emotions - difficulty expressing negative ones
Function of conflict
Product of maturation (Freud)
Due to changes in parent/child relationship
Conflict during adolescence is exaggerated (Collins)
Topics of conflict
Talk to parents about school, future & social issues
Don’t disclose about dating
Girls disclose more to mothers
Boys disclose equally to both parents inc. sexual attitudes
Laursen et al. (1991) 3 aspects of conflict
Conflict rate + conflict affect = total conflict
Moderate decline in rate of conflict from early to late adolescence
Greater negative affect in mid than early adolescence
Less conflict but more heated in mid than early (less rate, more affect)
Conflict with mother decreases more than with father
More disclosure = positive outcomes
Concealment = mental illness and poor relationship
Smetana et al. (2006) - disclosure
15 + 17yo and parents
Measured 10 things e.g. stimuli, trust, disclosure, self-esteem.
RESULTS:
Both agree adolescents should control personal issues.
Both agree parents control pudential (safety), moral (justice) & conventional (manners).
Conflict occurs when adults see it as a personal issue and adolescents don’t.
Boh think prudential disclosed the most and pesronal the least.
Disclose more to mothers than fathers on personal
Mothers overestimate daughter’s discloser
Disclosure predicted by trust and perceived obligation to disclose.
Social domain theory
Children learn what is right and wrong from the experiences they have interacting with others.
Relevance of sibling relations
Important for learning normative rules, emotion understanding and conflict management.
Rivalry and conflict is essential (differ in age so have power imbalance)
Top conflict is sharing of personal possessions