Factors affecting attraction- filter theory Flashcards
what is filter theory?
- Kirchoff and davies (1962)
- certain limiting factors that affect choice of partners
- we only become attracted to those who ass through a field of a series of filters
what is a field of desireables?
- everyone available to us that we actually want to start a relationship with
what is a field of availables?
- everyone available to us that we could start a relationship with
similarity filter 1: social demography
- more likely to come into contact with some people more than others just by how we spend our time
- who were with during education, work and socialising
- linked to characteristics like social class, education and economic status
similarity filter 2: attitudes
- due to social demography quite likely you have similar attitudes/ core values
- these people are seen as more attractive
- helps with self disclosure @ start of relationship
similarity filter 3: complimentary
- attracted to those who provide for our emotional needs
- partners can have differences that are mutually beneficial
- e.g. one may like organising social activities and the other may like having them arranged for them
- if both wanted to organise it may lead to conflict
- important in long term relationships
Research support for filter theory: Kirchoff and Davies (1962) investigation of filters
- 7 month questionnaire on views and based off a longitudinal study using student couples together for +/- than 18 months
- similarity of attitudes was most important in short term relationships
-complimentarity was most important factor in long term relationships - shows importance of attitudes and complimentarity in attraction
-BUT used student couples = not generalisable, may have culture bias
research support for filter theory: Tylor (2010) marriage from ethnic groups
- Americans who married in 1998
- 85% married from within their own ethnic groups
- real world finding that supports social demographics strongly influence partner selection
Evaluation of filter theory: similarity of partners may not be a result of selection
- similaroty of partners may be a result of convergence of beliefs and norms through communication
- complimentarity may be selected for but be developed due to each partner finding their role within a relationship
- issues of correlation not causation
Evaluation of filter theory: research lacks temporal validity due to increase in dating through apps
- filters are starting to break down due to virtual advances in the dating world
- tinder doesnt filter for social demography, ethnicity and education
- more focus on physical attraction
Evaluation of filter theory: research lacks temporal validity as acceptable for their to be multiracial couples
- relationship formation across ethnicities and cultures is more acceptable
- due to increased globalisation and migration
Evaluation of filter theory: more of a link to social exchange theory of relationships
- including the benefits of the other partner providing their needs and complimenting eachother, potentially links to social exchange theory more than just physical explanations of attraction