exam ch 9-12 Flashcards

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oculesics

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  • the study of how human beings communicate through the eyes

- we associate eye movement with expressions

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gaze

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  • an individuals looking behavior may or may not be looking at someone
  • zoning out
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mutual gaze

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2 people knowingly gaze at each other

- more common

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eye contact

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  • looking directly into someones eyes
  • less common
  • varies with other persons appearance
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normal gazing

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varies with background, personalities, topic, other person’s gazing pattern
- greater than 3 = awkward

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regulating the flow of communication

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  • visual contact occurs when we want to signal the comm channel is open
  • we look often and continue to look until we have began our interaction
  • also used to close/end communication
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monitoring feedback

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  • people seek feedback concerning the reactoin of others

- if someone looks at you when talking it suggests interest

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reflecting cognitive activity

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  • listeners and speakers tend to avoid gazing at others when processing difficult ideas
  • averted gaze often reflects a shift in attention from external to internal
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9
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expressing emotions

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a glance at the eye area provides a great deal of information about emotions expressed

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10
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communicating the the nature of the interpersonal relationship

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  • relationships are characterized by different status levels can be reflected in eye patterns
  • lower status show respect by gazing at higher status
  • higher status feel less of a need to gaze at lower status
  • eye contact is greater in intimate relationships
  • the closer we feel with someone the more we make eye contact with them
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distance

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  • gazing and mutual gazing increases as distance increases
  • decreases as we get closer to each other
  • we tend to have less visual contact when we feel too close in terms of physical closeness ex. in an elevator
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physical characteristics

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  • objects or people in our environment change our gaze
  • when you take in unfamiliar stimuli gaze increases
  • we condition ourselves to gaze not stare
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personality characteristics

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  • emotional, physical, and personality characteristics can all influence eye behavior
  • higher intelligence = more gazing
  • lower self esteem = less gazing
  • more extroverted, agreeable, or open = more gazing
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topics and tasks

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  • if a topic is happy or more upbeat = more gazing
  • if engaged in an intimate conversation with someone we do not have an intimate relationship with we tend to look away. ex. doctor
  • if we are trying to persuade someone we engage in more gazing
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cultural background and racial attiudes

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  • eye behavior varies according to the environment in which we learn social norms
  • western cultures (USA) some eye contact is desired between high and low status
  • eastern cultures (Japan) eye contact between high and low status could be viewed as disrespectful
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16
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pupil dialation

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pupil increases in size

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pupil constriction

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pupil decreases in size

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pupil dilation and constriction

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  • often times social implications can be derived from these behaviors
  • sometimes hard to see
  • dilate when interested but not very accurate
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deception

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an intentional act in which sender knowingly transmit a message to mislead another by fostering false impressions, beliefs, or understandings

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the pervasiveness of deception

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  • people like 1-2 times a day (big lies)
  • 10 - 15 small lies
  • deception is a part of everyday life
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nature of nonverbal deception

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  • humans use deception for positive and negative reasons
  • deception can ruin relationships
  • hard to gain back trust
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self focused motives of deception

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  • protect self image

- maintain privacy

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partner focused motives of deception

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  • helping a target

- protect a partners emotions (friends/family)

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relationship focused motives of deception

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  • avoid conflict
  • avoid relational break up
  • avoid violating roles
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25
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evolutionary perspective of deception

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  • as a species we learn to use deception as a survival mechanism
  • natural inclination to protect selves and family
  • survival of the fittest. people better at detecting lies or making lies are favored
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the leakage hypothesis of deception

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  • deception os associated with various internal physiological responses
  • are measurable/noticeable
  • deceivers try to compensate for tells
  • receivers try to notice tells
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27
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interpersonal deception theory

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  • places great emphasis on social interactions and process oriented deception
  • the more we interact the more we hear is true
  • deception happens in interactions and is based on contact and people
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self presentation theory of deception

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  • argues that deception is used to bolster credibility
  • gives a positive impression
  • deception is used as a communicative strategy
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functions of lying

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  • to save face
  • avoid tension in conflict
  • guide social interactions
  • expand or reduce relationships
  • impression formation
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culture

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collective cultures value other face needs more than self face needs
- individualistic cultures prefer more cinfrontation

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age

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older people generally better at telling and detecting lies

- more experience. trial and error

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sex

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men perceive deceit as more acceptable than women. also use it for impression management
- fairly equal in terms of number of lies

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personality

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extraverts tend to lie the most

34
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communication skills

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successful liars tend to have better communication skills

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detection deception

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  • no one behavior is indicative of lying

- Liars: smile less, have more hesitations, more speech errors

36
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lying may generate an emotional response

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  • anger - negative response to innocent question
  • guilt - looking away for long periods of time
  • unease - more fidgeting
37
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stereotypes of liars

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  • decrease in eye contact

- liars may compensate for this stereotype which may lead to too much eye contact

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accuracy

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  • humans believe they are accurate decoders of deception. they are not.
  • accurate 50% of the time
  • we are more accurate with people we know, unless they lied to us before (skepticism)
39
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duping delight

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  • occurs when liars feel pleasure when they lie or deceive successfully
  • may be reflected in a smile at the wrong time
  • micro expressions last for a fraction of a second and show concealed emotions
40
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the importance of social relationships

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  • social interactions are critical to everyday functioning
  • isolation is one of the most severe forms of punishment
  • 80% of interactions are nonverbal
41
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communicating intimacy groups

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  • romantic courtship (romantic relationship)
  • non romantic courtship (family/friends)
  • closeness with strangers and acquaintances
  • closeness with well established relationships
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courtship behaviors

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  • approach - getting two people in the same proximity
  • acknowledge - nonverbal invitation to begin talking
  • talk - increase in touching behaviors and eye gaze, more synchrony in nonverbal cues
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courtship readiness

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  1. begin to prepare your body for the interaction. stand up straight, straighten shoulders
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Preening behaviors

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  1. indicated by things like stroking your hair, rearranging make-up, adjusting clothing
45
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actions of appeal and incitation

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  1. includes flirtatious glances, gaze holding, crossing the legs to expose a thigh
46
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committed romantic relationships

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  • lots of nonverbals in beginning (kiss, hug, hold hands)
  • as time goes on nonverbals decrease
  • the quality of the act becomes more important than the quantity
  • can model each others characteristics
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using nonverbal comm to recognize romantic problems

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  1. extended proxemics (far apart)
  2. decreased touching
  3. minimal eye contact
48
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platonic relationships of male/female combos

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adv
- interpersonally rewarding
- women say they are more enjoyable
dis
- underlying sexual tension
- more likely to experience misunderstandings
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issues with cross-sex friends

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  • uncertain norms for proxemic zones (decreases over time)

- social perceptions of norms are different per sex

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same sex friendships

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  • not characterized by sexual tensions

- different with power/resources

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male/male friendships

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  • associated with competitiveness and dominance
  • typically task oriented. build around sharing activities
  • larger space, low eye contact, low touching
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female/female friendships

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  • high emotional connections
  • positive social support
  • close proxemics, mutual gazing, touching behaviors, relational gestures
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understanding stress

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  • refers to a combination of thoughts and worries which negatively affect the body
  • can be short term or long term
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emotional effects of stress

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stress changes how we feel about certain situations

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behavioral effects of stress

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  • avoidance - avoid certain behaviors entirely. stop hanging out w/ friends
  • extremes - engage in certain behaviors in excess. binge drinking
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physical effects of stress

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can cause noticeable problems to out bodies. lower immune system, eye bags

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common sources of stress for college students and young adults

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  • negative situations (stressors) - tests, bills
  • positive situations - uncertainty - weddings, graduation, vacation
  • personality - some personality traits gives people more stress. anxiety, OCD
  • second hand stress - we become stressed when people in our lives are stressed
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nonverbal cues that communicate stress

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  • less smiling
  • poor body posture
  • lack of eye contact
  • slower or less frequent gestures
  • decreased touching
  • less groomed
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how to cope with stress

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  • increase human contact
  • strategic facial expressions (forcing a smile)
  • larger proxemic zones. take a walk
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difficulties processing nonverbal communication

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difficulties in

  • perception
  • coordination
  • socialization
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autism

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  • a complex mental condition that is present from early childhood
  • difficulty in: communicating with other people, understanding abstract ideas
  • repetitive verbal and nonverbal behaviors
  • gestures and eye contact are critical growing up
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aspergers syndrome

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  • inability to demonstrate empathy toward other people and general social awkwardness
  • difficulty with back and forth conversations, they lack eye contact, have problems making personal relationships
  • linked with social isolation and lack of adult friendships
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bipolar personality

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  • moods range from extreme highs to extreme lows
  • characterized by cycles of behavioral and emotional changes that are reflected by impulsive behaviors, irritability, and decreased need for sleep
  • nonverbals can be erratic and unpredictable
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ADHD

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  • typical symptoms: difficulty staying focused/ paying attention, difficulty controlling certain behaviors, and general hyperactivity
  • associated NV behaviors: increased fidgeting and gestures, difficulty maintaining eye contact
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alexithymia

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  • inability to identify, define, and describe emotions
  • dysfunctions in emotional awareness, self control, social attachment, and ability to relate with others
  • unable to use NVC to express emotions