Exam 2: counseling skills etc.

Question 1

grandparents are _____ by our prosperity- ____ family dwelling

Answer 1

isolated; single

Question 2

grandparents are longer in ____ than parents

Answer 2

denial (wear rose coloured glasses)

Question 3

adult parents want to bring their parents ___, this may be gone if ch has special needs

Answer 3

joy

Question 4

term for: everyone acts like everything is ok

Answer 4

isolation

Question 5

many grandparents are what?

Answer 5

primary caretakers

Question 6

what is a major issue?

Answer 6

poverty

Question 7

when CH born with a disability, what sibling is most affected?

Answer 7

oldest daughter

Question 8

siblings who are caretakers have more _____, few ______

Answer 8

responsibility; social activities

Question 9

siblings can be very helpful during what 2 things?

Answer 9

assessment and treatment

Question 10

re: influence of poverty, one issue is that parents need as much ____ as their CH do

Answer 10

support

Question 11

re: influence of poverty, parents are barely surviving: _____ issues are often very low priority

Answer 11

speech and language

Question 12

re: influence of poverty, there can be ____ conflicts

Answer 12

value

Question 13

re: influence of poverty, middle SES clinicians want to be ____, make ____ now, plan ____

Answer 13

proactive; good choices; ahead

Question 14

re: influence of poverty, low SES families want to _____ in present as ____ is not a priority

Answer 14

survive; future

Question 15

re: CH of adults with disabilities, in most countries, _____ begin working right away to support families

Answer 15

adolescents

Question 16

re: CH of adults with disabilities, adolescent CH usually either do what 2 things?

Answer 16

become really responsible or get into trouble

Question 17

re: CH of adults with disabilities, it is very hard for adult CH to do what to their parents? why?

Answer 17

institutionalize them bc it’s very expensive

Question 18

re: CH of adults with disabilities, CH try to care for aging parents ___ themselves, or institutionalize parents and give up own home to pay ___

Answer 18

at home; bills

Question 19

some ways to build positive relationships with parents

Answer 19

focus on CH’s strengths and weaknesses
put self in parents’ shoes
show interest in parents as people
use “foot in door” technique by getting parents to say “yes” at beginning
watch where you sit- across: authoritative; next to: camaraderie
maintain good eye contact
during meetings, write things on white board- use their exact words