Exam 2: counseling skills etc. Flashcards
grandparents are _____ by our prosperity- ____ family dwelling
isolated; single
grandparents are longer in ____ than parents
denial (wear rose coloured glasses)
adult parents want to bring their parents ___, this may be gone if ch has special needs
joy
term for: everyone acts like everything is ok
isolation
many grandparents are what?
primary caretakers
what is a major issue?
poverty
when CH born with a disability, what sibling is most affected?
oldest daughter
siblings who are caretakers have more _____, few ______
responsibility; social activities
siblings can be very helpful during what 2 things?
assessment and treatment
re: influence of poverty, one issue is that parents need as much ____ as their CH do
support
re: influence of poverty, parents are barely surviving: _____ issues are often very low priority
speech and language
re: influence of poverty, there can be ____ conflicts
value
re: influence of poverty, middle SES clinicians want to be ____, make ____ now, plan ____
proactive; good choices; ahead
re: influence of poverty, low SES families want to _____ in present as ____ is not a priority
survive; future
re: CH of adults with disabilities, in most countries, _____ begin working right away to support families
adolescents
re: CH of adults with disabilities, adolescent CH usually either do what 2 things?
become really responsible or get into trouble
re: CH of adults with disabilities, it is very hard for adult CH to do what to their parents? why?
institutionalize them bc it’s very expensive
re: CH of adults with disabilities, CH try to care for aging parents ___ themselves, or institutionalize parents and give up own home to pay ___
at home; bills
some ways to build positive relationships with parents
focus on CH’s strengths and weaknesses
put self in parents’ shoes
show interest in parents as people
use “foot in door” technique by getting parents to say “yes” at beginning
watch where you sit- across: authoritative; next to: camaraderie
maintain good eye contact
during meetings, write things on white board- use their exact words
