Everything Else (Exam 5) Flashcards
what were the results of Donald Symons study on cross-cultural gift-giving?
most cultures fell in the category where only men give gifts, there were no cultures where women’s gifts were more valuable than men’s or where only women gave gifts
how are sex and gift-giving treated by Trobriand Islanders?
women and men have great sexual freedom, women are just as interested in sex as men, and women have equality with men, however, it is custom that sex is a service from women to men and men have to pay in the form of gifts (men shamed if they can’t please women)
what was the conclusion of the University of Michigan students when asked if they gave sex for something of value or something of value for sex?
sex is transactional even if people aren’t desperate for resources or money
what is “Sexual Economics Theory” by Baumeister and Vohs?
sex is a female resource (gatekeepers/sellers of sex) while sex is a male good to acquire (consumers/buyers of sex) females goals are to obtain as many resources as possible while males try to obtain sex with as few resources as possible
what are the average prices for egg donation vs. sperm donation?
egg: $5,000
sperm: $35 - $150
what causes men’s huge demand for sex?
they believe sex is in perpetually short supply because they desire variety
true or false: men and women are likely to have sex even with increasing likelihood of an STI
false; men were, women were much less likely
what are the sex differences in ST sex?
men: lower their standards dramatically
women: maintain relatively high standards
what is the definition of sex work?
sex behavior in exchange for money for example stripping, porn, etc.
99% of those who purchase sex are —
men
+90% of those who sell sex are —
women
what is the exploitative perspective of prostitiution?
prostitution should be illegal and criminalized because it is degrading and inherently exploitative
what’s the labor perspective of prostitution?
women should have the right to use their bodies in any way they wish like football players and models
what is sex trafficking?
forced sex work/prostitution
what is street prostitution?
solicitation of sex in public spaces (streets, alleys, etc.) - most vulnerable
what is brothel-based prostitution?
selling of sexual services in established venues
what are escort services?
individual companionship and sexual services to clients often arranged through agencies or online platforms “The girlfriend experience”
what is online sex work?
solicitation of sex or sexual content through online platforms - most protected
why is porn not illegal?
it doesn’t fall under “sex work” because the actors aren’t exchanging money in the video they are both paid actors and therefore it is considered “art”
what were the characteristics men described wanting in sex cam girls?
“healthy” appearance, attractive, happy, cheerful, enthusiastic
true or false: the men on Ashley Madison reported cheating/wanting to cheat because they were unhappy in their marriages
false; the chances they would cheat were no different if they were happy or unhappy
according to the Ashley Madison study what was the number one motivation for men to cheat?
low sexual satisfaction
what are the motivations and benefits for sugar babies, sugar benefactors, and both?
babies: financial gain
benefactors: “dating up”
both: companionship, transparency, mentorship
what are the disadvantages for sugar babies and sugar benefactors?
babies: concerns for physical safety
benefactors: reputation and being used for money
true or false: in sugar baby-benefactors relationships, the benefactor has the most power
false; there are no statistical differences in perceived power - babies are attractive and benefactors have resources
true or false: sugar arrangements always involve sex
false; almost always
mate competition has existed since what?
sexual reproduction
what is Dawkins’s puzzle and what is the solution?
why do women compete on appearance?
due to concealed ovulation, physical appearance is the male’s cue to fertility and therefore is the basis for female competition
what are the two general strategies of competition for humans?
self-enhancement and competition derogation
what are the most effective attraction tactics for men?
displaying altruistic welfare tradeoff ratio and signal LT mating strategy
does playing “hard to get” work?
in moderation yes - hard to get in general but not hard to get for you (signals high mate value and fidelity)
true or false: overtly sexual acts are highly effective for attracting both men and women
false; effective for attracting men not women
why does it work for women to derogate appearance of other women?
- draws men’s attention to small imperfections and emphasizes them
- men want their partner to be approved by others because it improves his status
true or false: resource derogation is most useful for men in competition and physical appearance derogation is most useful for women in competition
true
many more men die before reproducing than men and many societies were polyamorous which has led to what?
modern human DNA shows more women have passed down their DNA than men
what event caused an increase in polygamy?
humans engagement in agriculture
monogamy is common in societies where what?
the hierarchy of men is more or less similar
true or false: monogamy decreases the number of incels
true
what were three ways past societies dealt with incels?
warfare, exploration, monestary
what are the 4 dimensions needed to be identified as a “tendency for interpersonal victimhood”?
- need for recognition
- moral elitism
- lack of empathy
- rumination
true or false: incels are majority right leaning
false; broad range
what is “self verification theory”?
the tendency of humans to surround ourselves with others who see us the way we do even if its negative
true or false: incels have standards that are too high
false; they are lower than average but they fail to cross-sex mindread and therefore believe they are undesirable
incels think women what who?
Chad - hot and successful with no personality
what is the modern mating crisis?
modern women’s socio-economic success + evolved mate-preference for higher status mates = skewed ration of highly educated and selective women and a lack of economically attractive men
why is there not MORE incel violence?
they let it out online