Ettiquette Quarter 4 Final Exam Flashcards

1
Q

How much to tip for dinner at a restaurant

A

15-20%
In most metropolitan restaurants, one tips at least 15 to 20% of the dinner cost depending on the service and type of restaurant

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2
Q

When to order white wine

A

White wine served, chilled and served with fish and chicken

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3
Q

When to order red wine

A

red wine served at cellar temperature and served with red meat and red pasta sauces

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4
Q

Sommelier

A

The name used for the wine steward

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5
Q

Who pays the restaurant check?

A

Regardless of gender, the person who did the inviting pay the restaurant check

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6
Q

What utensils should be placed on the right side of the dinner plate?

A

the soup spoon and knife

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7
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What utensils should be placed on the left side of the dinner plate?

A

Salad fork and dinner fork

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8
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What direction should you use utensils?

A

Begin with the outside of flatware/utensils and work your way in

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9
Q

Where should glassware be placed on the table?

A

Glassware is placed to the right of the dinner plate and above the knife and soup spoon

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10
Q

Where should the bread and butter plate be placed on the table?

A

The bread and butter plate should be placed to the left of the dinner plate and above the forks

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11
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Where should utensils be placed after you have begun to use them?

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Once utensils touch your mouth, they should rest on the plate, not the table

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12
Q

When should you put the napkin on your lap?

A

Rest the napkin on your lap when you are seated

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13
Q

How should a dinner roll be eaten?

A

A dinner roll is broken into small pieces and each piece is buttered

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14
Q

How should you be seated at a banquette?

A

the guest/woman should be seated and the host/man sits in the chair opposite of them

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15
Q

When following the maitre d, what is the order?

A

guest/woman follows the maitre d’ and the host/man follows.
(guest goes first)

(A maitre d is like a sophisticated waiter at a fancy restaurant)

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16
Q

When should you speak when eating?

A

Wait until your food is swallowed before taking a drink of water; never with your mouth full

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17
Q

Is it appropriate to tip the valet, guest room attendant and coat check attendant?

A

yes

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18
Q

Examples of condolence gestures

A
  • flowers, letters to the family, food, mass cards, donations etc
  • they warrant a written letter of acknowledgment
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19
Q

What to do if you are sent a simple commercial sympathy card

A
  • an acknowledgement is not necessary
  • to send one is up to the discretion of the family
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20
Q

What to do if you made a donation to a charity at someone’s request

A

you can inform them, omitting the amount

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21
Q

What shape is the American flag presented to the next of kin

A

a triangular shape with the blue field showing

22
Q

Should you RSVP even if you are not going to attend the event?

A

yes. RSVP on an invitation requires a response if you are, or are not attending

23
Q

When to send a thank you card

A

send a thank you note for a favor granted, a gift, and an interview

24
Q

What to do if you receive an inappropriate gift, or against company policy

A

graciously decline

25
Q

What type of flowers to send to an office

A
  • flower arrangement or plant
  • only send cut flowers when a vase can be readily available
26
Q

Generally preferred alcoholic beverage to bring as a gift

A
  • wine, sparkling wine, or an after dinner liqueur
  • don’t bring something that’s meant to be opened at the dinner
27
Q

Concierge

A
  • a trained professional in a hotel designated specifically for guest services.
  • can provide luxury services, give directions, arrange tours, get theater tickets and reservations
  • can tip for minor things $5-10
  • can tip more $15-30+ depending on the task
28
Q

What expression should not be used when a client thanks you

A
  • “not a problem”
  • use you’re welcome
29
Q

Is it appropriate to shake everyone’s hand

A

yes

30
Q

Whose hand should you shake when you’re entering a group/conversation

A

shake the host’s hand first

31
Q

Most important thing to remember about making introductions

A

just do it

32
Q

Order to introduce people

A
  • introduce a younger person to an older person (Mr. jones, meet peter)
  • introduce a peer in your own company to a peer in another company
  • introduce a nonofficial person to an official person
  • introduce a co-worker to a client
  • introduce your spouse to an outsider
  • in social situations, all things being equal, introduce a man to a woman

(Introduce the unfamiliar person to the familiar person) ex Charlie meet my husband Anthony

33
Q

the title Ms.

A

Ms. is appropriate for a single, married divorced or widowed woman

34
Q

Can widow’s keep their dead husband’s last name

A

yes

35
Q

When addressing a married woman in the workplace

A

Mrs. Dede Frank instead of Mrs. Terry Frank

36
Q

When to use MD/PHD and Dr.

A

use one or the other, not both
ex. Dr. Sydney Macon or Sydney Macon, PhD

(NOT Dr. Sydney Macon PhD)

37
Q

When to use Jr.

A

When a man has the same first, middle, and last name as his father

38
Q

When to use II,III etc.

A

Can be used when a man had the same first, middle and last name as another man in his family such as a grandfather or uncle

39
Q

Salutation of a letter

A

Dear Ms. Myers or Dear Sydney Myers

40
Q

Complementary close

A

Sincerely,
Sydney Macon

41
Q

What not to do during an interview

A

drink or smoke

42
Q

When to call an employer by their first name

A

wait until the empoyer suggest to you to call them by their first name

43
Q

impolite phone usage

A

do not use your phone during class, a meeting, or a meal

44
Q

Toasts

A

The one being toasted does not raise their glass along with the rest of the group

45
Q

How to introduce yourself during a business call

A

introduce yourself with your first and last name

46
Q

When being introduced…

A

use your first and last name

47
Q

Sexual harassment

A
  • refrain from calling people honey or darling
  • do not behave in sterotypical, offensive, or degrading ways
48
Q

Gender roles in the workplace

A

No gender roles
- everyone must do their part.
ex. everyone makes coffee, cleans the lunchroom, pays for meals, takes notes at meetings, hails cabs, and opens doors for each other

49
Q

When should employees stand?

A

All employees stand when being introduced to client families

50
Q

What is an important part of social and professional life?

A

making introductions

51
Q

Online Etiquette

A

it is okay to
- ignore friend requests
- untag yourself
- delete comments on your page
- unfriend others
- ignore quizzes, groups, and widely marketed event requests
- use privacy settings to restrict access to your page

52
Q

Interview at a resturant

A
  • Arrive a few minutes early so the employer is not waiting
  • Dont ask to be seated or order a drink at the bar when waiting
  • Greet the interviewer at the lobby or foyer with a smile and handshake