Ettiquette Quarter 4 Final Exam Flashcards

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How much to tip for dinner at a restaurant

A

15-20%
In most metropolitan restaurants, one tips at least 15 to 20% of the dinner cost depending on the service and type of restaurant

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When to order white wine

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White wine served, chilled and served with fish and chicken

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When to order red wine

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red wine served at cellar temperature and served with red meat and red pasta sauces

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Sommelier

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The name used for the wine steward

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Who pays the restaurant check?

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Regardless of gender, the person who did the inviting pay the restaurant check

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What utensils should be placed on the right side of the dinner plate?

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the soup spoon and knife

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What utensils should be placed on the left side of the dinner plate?

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Salad fork and dinner fork

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What direction should you use utensils?

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Begin with the outside of flatware/utensils and work your way in

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Where should glassware be placed on the table?

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Glassware is placed to the right of the dinner plate and above the knife and soup spoon

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Where should the bread and butter plate be placed on the table?

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The bread and butter plate should be placed to the left of the dinner plate and above the forks

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Where should utensils be placed after you have begun to use them?

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Once utensils touch your mouth, they should rest on the plate, not the table

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When should you put the napkin on your lap?

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Rest the napkin on your lap when you are seated

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How should a dinner roll be eaten?

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A dinner roll is broken into small pieces and each piece is buttered

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How should you be seated at a banquette?

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the guest/woman should be seated and the host/man sits in the chair opposite of them

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When following the maitre d, what is the order?

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guest/woman follows the maitre d’ and the host/man follows.
(guest goes first)

(A maitre d is like a sophisticated waiter at a fancy restaurant)

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When should you speak when eating?

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Wait until your food is swallowed before taking a drink of water; never with your mouth full

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Is it appropriate to tip the valet, guest room attendant and coat check attendant?

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yes

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Examples of condolence gestures

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  • flowers, letters to the family, food, mass cards, donations etc
  • they warrant a written letter of acknowledgment
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What to do if you are sent a simple commercial sympathy card

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  • an acknowledgement is not necessary
  • to send one is up to the discretion of the family
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What to do if you made a donation to a charity at someone’s request

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you can inform them, omitting the amount

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21
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What shape is the American flag presented to the next of kin

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a triangular shape with the blue field showing

22
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Should you RSVP even if you are not going to attend the event?

A

yes. RSVP on an invitation requires a response if you are, or are not attending

23
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When to send a thank you card

A

send a thank you note for a favor granted, a gift, and an interview

24
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What to do if you receive an inappropriate gift, or against company policy

A

graciously decline

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What type of flowers to send to an office
- flower arrangement or plant - only send cut flowers when a vase can be readily available
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Generally preferred alcoholic beverage to bring as a gift
- wine, sparkling wine, or an after dinner liqueur - don't bring something that's meant to be opened at the dinner
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Concierge
- a trained professional in a hotel designated specifically for guest services. - can provide luxury services, give directions, arrange tours, get theater tickets and reservations - can tip for minor things $5-10 - can tip more $15-30+ depending on the task
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What expression should not be used when a client thanks you
- "not a problem" - use you're welcome
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Is it appropriate to shake everyone's hand
yes
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Whose hand should you shake when you're entering a group/conversation
shake the host's hand first
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Most important thing to remember about making introductions
just do it
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Order to introduce people
- introduce a younger person to an older person (Mr. jones, meet peter) - introduce a peer in your own company to a peer in another company - introduce a nonofficial person to an official person - introduce a co-worker to a client - introduce your spouse to an outsider - in social situations, all things being equal, introduce a man to a woman (Introduce the unfamiliar person to the familiar person) ex Charlie meet my husband Anthony
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the title Ms.
Ms. is appropriate for a single, married divorced or widowed woman
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Can widow's keep their dead husband's last name
yes
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When addressing a married woman in the workplace
Mrs. Dede Frank instead of Mrs. Terry Frank
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When to use MD/PHD and Dr.
use one or the other, not both ex. Dr. Sydney Macon or Sydney Macon, PhD (NOT Dr. Sydney Macon PhD)
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When to use Jr.
When a man has the same first, middle, and last name as his father
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When to use II,III etc.
Can be used when a man had the same first, middle and last name as another man in his family such as a grandfather or uncle
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Salutation of a letter
Dear Ms. Myers or Dear Sydney Myers
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Complementary close
Sincerely, Sydney Macon
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What not to do during an interview
drink or smoke
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When to call an employer by their first name
wait until the empoyer suggest to you to call them by their first name
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impolite phone usage
do not use your phone during class, a meeting, or a meal
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Toasts
The one being toasted does not raise their glass along with the rest of the group
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How to introduce yourself during a business call
introduce yourself with your first and last name
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When being introduced...
use your first and last name
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Sexual harassment
- refrain from calling people honey or darling - do not behave in sterotypical, offensive, or degrading ways
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Gender roles in the workplace
No gender roles - everyone must do their part. ex. everyone makes coffee, cleans the lunchroom, pays for meals, takes notes at meetings, hails cabs, and opens doors for each other
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When should employees stand?
All employees stand when being introduced to client families
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What is an important part of social and professional life?
making introductions
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Online Etiquette
it is okay to - ignore friend requests - untag yourself - delete comments on your page - unfriend others - ignore quizzes, groups, and widely marketed event requests - use privacy settings to restrict access to your page
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Interview at a resturant
- Arrive a few minutes early so the employer is not waiting - Dont ask to be seated or order a drink at the bar when waiting - Greet the interviewer at the lobby or foyer with a smile and handshake