Ettiquette Quarter 4 Final Exam Flashcards
How much to tip for dinner at a restaurant
15-20%
In most metropolitan restaurants, one tips at least 15 to 20% of the dinner cost depending on the service and type of restaurant
When to order white wine
White wine served, chilled and served with fish and chicken
When to order red wine
red wine served at cellar temperature and served with red meat and red pasta sauces
Sommelier
The name used for the wine steward
Who pays the restaurant check?
Regardless of gender, the person who did the inviting pay the restaurant check
What utensils should be placed on the right side of the dinner plate?
the soup spoon and knife
What utensils should be placed on the left side of the dinner plate?
Salad fork and dinner fork
What direction should you use utensils?
Begin with the outside of flatware/utensils and work your way in
Where should glassware be placed on the table?
Glassware is placed to the right of the dinner plate and above the knife and soup spoon
Where should the bread and butter plate be placed on the table?
The bread and butter plate should be placed to the left of the dinner plate and above the forks
Where should utensils be placed after you have begun to use them?
Once utensils touch your mouth, they should rest on the plate, not the table
When should you put the napkin on your lap?
Rest the napkin on your lap when you are seated
How should a dinner roll be eaten?
A dinner roll is broken into small pieces and each piece is buttered
How should you be seated at a banquette?
the guest/woman should be seated and the host/man sits in the chair opposite of them
When following the maitre d, what is the order?
guest/woman follows the maitre d’ and the host/man follows.
(guest goes first)
(A maitre d is like a sophisticated waiter at a fancy restaurant)
When should you speak when eating?
Wait until your food is swallowed before taking a drink of water; never with your mouth full
Is it appropriate to tip the valet, guest room attendant and coat check attendant?
yes
Examples of condolence gestures
- flowers, letters to the family, food, mass cards, donations etc
- they warrant a written letter of acknowledgment
What to do if you are sent a simple commercial sympathy card
- an acknowledgement is not necessary
- to send one is up to the discretion of the family
What to do if you made a donation to a charity at someone’s request
you can inform them, omitting the amount