Ethics Flashcards

1
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you dont get on well w ur co-intern — she wont help u with work, wont take your bleep post call, is now making prescription mistakes + blaming them on u, generally bad mouthing you to the other interns

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no. 1 priority = ensure patient safety isnt compomised

local level

talk to her when we’re not busy, in a quiet room away from the patients, if possible i would give away the bleeps so that we arent interrupted.

i would bring up the issues in a non-confrontational way and be polite – “i understand” “i might be wrong but”

try to see if im understanding things wrongly, maybe she has certain uncertainties or anxiety — something i can help with
do she need help — issues at home or work
help do the jobs together
show how to do procedures if neede
switch/cover shifts
suggest they talk to relevant help services —- occupational health, addiction services, PHMP practioners health matters programme
generally support them through whatever they’re going through

while i want to help them in whatever problem they’re facing, I wold still want to address the problem and make sure it doesnt continue

as doctors we’re meant to be a role model + have a responsibility to do so

if she is still resistant = escalate to higher levels
consult a reg who isnt involved + can trust
if need be i will escalate higher –> consultant –> intern tutor –> HR

doctors working in MDTs should ensure clear lines of communication + systems of accountability in place among team members to protect patients

if they said you should move to a different team, how would you feel?
accept it — if the tutor felt it was in the best interest of the patients then i would move
but i would go with it with a heavy heart

reflect

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nurse calls you repeatedly at night to get paperwork done + badmouths you in front of patients — discuss

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no. 1 priority = ensure patient safety is not compromised

(similar to the co-intern bad mouthing)

i understand that she may have been working in the wards and hospital for a very long time, she may like things to be done in a certain way, and it can be frustrating to have new doctors coming around every day who do things differently from her.

i would try to understand why she needs that paperwork done urgently, and explain my point of view on the priority of things i need to get done in the night.

I would try to reach a compromise and improve communication.
for example, before i take a break or nap, i would tell the nurses i am going to rest and ask if there is anything that needs to be done before then.

i would then explain to her that she cannot be badmouthing me in front of patients as it is unprofessional.

doctors working in MDTs should ensure that there are clear lines of commuication and systems of accountability in place among team members to protect patients.

reflect

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workplace bullying — nursing staff being rude or ED reg shouting at you

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no. 1 priority = ensure that patient safety isnt compromised
are there any more people affected by this — patients or team members
step back from the situation, dont take it personally — a difficult colleague is a colleague in difficulty
break down of communication can only be detrimental to patient safety

at a local level
i would avoid confrontations — esp in front of patients
be clear with them that it is inappropriate

try to establish a context is important
understant the person in the acute phase
important to establish if this is a once-off event or a pattern of behaviour that needs to be addressed (eg. racism, sexism)
building a supportive environment: need to stand up for what i believe is right and might want to protect any vulnerable persons
good professional practice supports performance & patient safety
partnership = one of the pillars of professionalism

if happening to another colleague — eg. found crying coz a consultant bullied them
comfort the colleague
establish whether patient safet is at risk
ultimately it would be best for both individuals to talk amongst themselves, but i can facilitate if required as a neutral 3rd party

the intern bullied is especially vulnerable as there is a mismatch of employment status — the consultant may be in a permanent post, and the intern may be reliant on the consultant to write letters or give recommendations

do a reflection afterwards

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high court judge inpatient is threatening to sue the hospital as he heard someone in the ward has covid-19 and is worried he will catch it

OR

old man with lightheadedness on a trolley in the ED for 3 days + has private health insurance. his family is angry and wants to sue you

A

no. 1 priority = patient safety

familiarise myself with the patient and the context
what happened
previous complaints or difficulties with the patient
why is he upset and what are his concerns
i would also clarify the situation by talking to his nursing staff and the other doctors looking after him

when talking to the patient
i would bring the patient into a private and quiet room to de-escalate the situation, and would pass my bleep to someone so as to not be disturbed
i would apologise to the patient and allow him to air his grievances
i would also try to open channels of communication

i would make sure to KEEP VERY GOOD NOTES OF EVERY INTERACTION with these patients

address the patient concerns.

eg. the patient worried about infection
infection control is important for patient safety, good practice is one of the pillars of professionalism
i would take the complaint seriously and wants him to know that
i would explain the infection prevention measures currently in place, such as the patient being in an isolation room, and everyone being required to wear gowns before entering his room and disposing of those gowns so as to not pass the virus to other patients.

eg. the trolley guy
reassure him that we are doing our best to find a bed for him in the wards, we do our best to give the appropriate care to our patients, even if he is on a trolley.
i understand that it is not ideal but he is receiving his treatment which is important
and explain that both public and private hospital is full which is why he is still in the ED

the most important thing at the moment is to get you feeling better, if need be we can address the matter of legal complaints in the future

DONT disclose another patient’s medical info — ie cant tell him that someone does have the flu next to him

use this as an opportunity for health promotion –> encourage him to get the flu, pneumococcal, covid vaccines

if patient is still adamant about sueing = discuss with senior

reflect on the situation — what could i have done better to address his concerns

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5
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PEG feeding in advanced dementia: his wife is enquiring about possibility of PEG insertion but his daughter doesnt want it. wife asks for your advice whether to go ahead or not

OR

men comes in with acute pneumonia. his family wants a PEG tube but it isnt indicated

A
  1. determine whether or not a PEG tube is clinically indicated
    in advanced dementia, studies show that a PEG placement doesnt prolong life — instead, oral assisted feeding is preferable

(note: advanced dementia, losing weight is the final stage of illness – be v.gentle when discussing this with his daughter)

  1. explore families ICE (ideas, concerns, expectations)
    assess understanding + explore why wife/fam wants a PEG tube
    saturday –> not a decision for a saturday night coz MDT isnt here to give input
    link in with patients team & nursing home staff in terms of advanced care planning
    nursing home liaison officer
  2. talk about other options –> involving dietician & palliative care team
    patients have right to refuse treatment, but no right to demand treatment
    if family wants a PEG but MDT doesnt think he erquires one, the patient shouldnt even be asked if he wants one.
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6
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what is PEG feeding?
patients wife is enquiring about the possibility of tube feeding + wants to know about it
can her husand get one? should he? what does it do?

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PEG tube stands for percutaneous endoscopic gastrostomy
it is a flexible feeding tube placed through the abdominal wall and into the stomach.
it allows food, fluid and medication to go directly to the stomach, bypassing the mouth and oesopagus

usually it is used if there is any difficulty swallowing or if swallowing is dangerous
due to risk of aspiration — so food or stomach contents going down the wrong way

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7
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how do you assess capacity?

what happens if it is decided that a patient lacks capacity?

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there are 4 requirements to a patient’s ability to make a decision
1. able to understand information communicated to him
2. able to retain the information sufficiently long enough to
3. weight the information up and
4. communicate it to the team + believe its implications

capacity is decision-specific and not general

it is important to assess capacity at the appropriate time so as to optimise the patient’s decision making skills — since capacity can fluctuate.

if decided that a patient lacks capacity
he should still be involved in decision process as much as possible
in the absence of capacity, decisions should be make in the patient’s best interest, will and preference.
you can involve the family in the decision making process but the family CANNOT consent for them
enduring power of attorney DOESNT apply to medical decision — until the assisted decision making act comes to play soon
enduring power of attorney doesnt activate until the patient loses capacity

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woman with poorly controlled diabetes + HTN is on teratogenic antihypertensives (ACEI/ARBs)

she finds out she is pregnant — 11 weeks + unplanned

she comes to the GP wanting to terminate her pregnancy

what advice would you give her? how would you address her concerns regarding the health of her foetus

address + explore concerns — does she want a termination because she is worried about foetal abnormalities?

A
  1. risk to foetus & mother

antihypertensives are teratogenic
ACEI = a/w with malformations if taken in 1st trimester, a/w kidney problems when taken in 2nd or 3rd trimester
switch to labetalol (1st line)/nifedipine/methyldopa
take aspirin 75mg from 12 weeks — increased risk of HTN in pregnancy
mother: stroke, VTE, renal failure, eclampsia, HELLP syndrome
foetus: IUGR, abruption, preterm birth, stillbirth

poorly controlled DM = another risk to mother & foetus
mother: hypo/hyperglycaemia, retinopathy, pre-eclampsia
foetus: malformation, macrosomia, dystocia, IUGR, stillbirth
discontinue sulphonylureas & statins
high dose folic acid 5mg
close monitoring for complications in DM

  1. Termination of Pregnancy
    allowed up to 12 wks gestation for a termination of pregnancy
    but in reality it is 11 weeks and 4 days — as 3 days must elapse during the decision making process

<9 wks ToP = medical in the community — mifepristone + misoprostol
>9 wks ToP = in hospital, medical or surgical (eg. vacuum aspiration under GA)

if any fatal foetal abnormality or risk to life of mother = can do a ToP past 12 wks — but ACEI wont constitute this

ultimately it is the mother’s choice

  1. health promotion
    educate about contraception use after termination
    reinforce importance of planning future pregnancy with poorly controlled DM —- consult endocrinologist 6 months in advance at least + high dose folic acid, etc

“is there anything else you would like to know that perhaps i havent touched on? you dont have to make any decisions now, here is a leaflet with everything we talked about today and you are always welcome to come back into the clinic at any time.”

then asked about pre-eclampsia

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9
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nursing home:

in patient + wants to go home instead of a nursing home — what are you going to do?

OR

women post fall, not suitable for discharge home + MDT has decided she needs long term care/nursing, but she feels she is safe to go home and disagrees

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if and where possible, i would accept the wishes of the patient and work around it. however, there are a few steps before that.

before talking to the patient, i would want to find out more details of her case, why does she likely require long term care and nursing, what is her current baseline in terms of settling her basic ADLs, mobility and more, what is her living situation (who does she live with, are they capable of and willing to be looking after her?)

if she has not been informed already of the belief that she requires long term care, I would then break the bad news crefully
ideally i would have a family member there to comfort her and bring a member of the MDT with me
i would also give her a warning shot

during my conversation with the patient,
ask what she understands the situation and the issues regarding discharge
explore her ICE (ideas, concerns, expectations) regarding nursing homes
explain the issues she is currently facing that are the reason we believe it might be difficult for her to handle by herself in the community
also reassure that is nursing home need not be forever, it can act as a rehab step down facility for a few weeks, and then reassess if she can go home after
would like to bring family into this discussion as much as possible (of course if the patient gives permission) as the family may have to take on care giving roles

if the patient says i understand everything you say –> but i want to go home
i cant force the patient to go to a nursing home
but i would check her capacity
if capacity is intact, i would safety net as much as possible to facilitate the patients wishes
OT for home safety assessment + adaptations
home care package, meals on wheels, private nursing
explore other options — is there a relative they can go home with
does not have to be a decision made right now, i would give u time to think about it and w can discuss further

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elderly lady from nursing home
came in for UTI
doesnt want to go back to nursing home
?negligence issue – has decubitus ulcers
on 1 occassion when she slipped and fell, her carer told her to get up by herself
so what would you do?

how fast would you go for a consultant?

what would you do if the higher up seems to brush this off?

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patient safety is the no.1 priority — it is our responsibility to protect vulnerable patients in our care, we cannot discharge the patient into an unsafe environment

i would first talk to the patient, to understand her reasons why she doesnt want to go back
be empathic and listen to her
explore her ICE
does she want to go somewhere else?
is there a misunderstanding of the patient in re to physio & rehab vs negligence on part of nursing home

ultimately i would involve the senior members of the team (eg. consultant)

i would also involve the MDT, regarding their impression on her character (does she make things up, has she been eratic)

possibly report to the HIQA health information and quality authority

also call the nursing home to clarify

who in the hospital structure can you talk to about this?
intern tutor
nursing home liaison officer!!!!!!
risk incident form

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11
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refusing BiPAP

a morbidly obese man w respi failure wants to go home + is unhappy re his BiPAP. all involved medical personnel feel he shouldnt be sent home + O2 is highly recommended. psychiatry deemed that the person is mentally competent. what would you do?

alternative treatments for him
what kind of support services could we provide for him to enable him to live at home

OR

man CKD lives alone, requires dialysis —> patient is adamant that he doesnt want it

OR

patient trying to self-discharge

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if and where possible i will accept the wishes of the patient and work around it, however there are a few steps i must do before that.

first i would want to find out the full details of his case, such as why he requires the BiPAP, what has happened when he doesnt have the BiPAP, what are the possible alternatives for him that i can suggest if need be.

before the conversation, i would like a family member to be with him if he consents, and a member of the MDT that can provide a perspective different from mine, such as physio.

i would then have a conversation with the patient
explore his ICE (ideas, concerns, expectations) regarding BiPAP
ask what he understands about BiPAP and his need for it, the issues re his discharge and reasons he wants to leave
is it just the BiPAP or the restriction of being in hospital?
or if dialysis: what is his understanding of dialysis? has him been informed of haemodialysis vs peritoneal dialysis
what does the patient know about the implications/risks of refusing treatment (DONT SAY CONSEQUENCES)
explain why the MDT feels he requires the BiPAP, in the perspective of the doctors, physio, etc
ask if he would like to speak to a nurse specialist who could give him more information

if patient accepts what you day —> but still refuses
i cant force the patient to accept treatment
i would assess capacity
if capacity is intake, i woud have to find ways to work around it
OT home adaptation
supplementary O2 at home, respiratory nurse home visits
if dm BiPAP but dw hospitalised = is BiPAP in the community possible?

doesnt have to be a decision make right now, the only reason why we are having this conversation is to plan for the future

if dialysis case: talk about being listed for transplant if eGFR <12

safety net
write down what was discussed
he can always consider his options

how would you involve the daughter in this conversation?
ask his consent to involve daughter
wants to make sure shes on the same page

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breaking bad news

77 y/o COPD M w many comorbidities & prev ICU admissions is decompensating again
ICU docs say they wont admit him
talk to this patient, break the news to him, tell him about his care options

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break bad news

  1. prepare myself
    set time aside
    ensure i have all the relevant facts
    know my limits and how comfortable i am –> if possible i would have a senior with me
    if patient consents i would have a family member e with him
  2. make a good connection
    sit down and introduce myself
    inform that we are going to be talking about the plan while he is in hospital
    ask the patient what he understands re his situation and his COPD
    build up upon his knowledge — what has been done so far for him, previous admissions & what the outcomes were
  3. give a warning shot
    your admission this time around will likely be different from the previous rounds
    (pause for a moment)
    break bad news — the ICU doctors do not want to admit you to ICU.
    rationale being if you are admitted to ICU again, it would likely do you more harm than good. they have referred you to palliative care.
  4. acknowledge the shock
    validate the emotions
    deal with concerns or just give time to process
    palliative care doesnt mean giving up
  5. plan & follow up
    plan for a next meeting
    write down what was said in the meeting
  6. reflect: what have i learned from this experience

does this mean im going to die?
(essentially tell him idk)
sometimes the body can surprise us with how much it can overcome, however currently the team believes that it is best for us to not put your body through more stress by being admitted into ICU.
our priority is to help you get as comfortable as you can be, and not do anything drastic that may do more harm than good.

OR

it is impossible for us to predict how different people will respond to different therapies — some respond well some dont.
the most impt thing we can do is to make sure ur symptoms are as best controlled as possible.

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13
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drunk colleague

consultant/co-intern smells of alcohol

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no. 1 priority = ensure patient safety isnt compromised

as a drunk colleague is an immediate risk to patient safety, it is important i act immediately

i would first start at a local level,
talk to them in a quiet room away from the patients, if possible i would give my bleep away so as to not be disturbed
i would bring up issues in a non-confrontational way — “i might be wrong and please forgive me if i am, but ive noticed that you smell of alcohol and dont look quite right. are you ok?”
if confirmed drunk = ask them to leave work in the interest of patient safety

i would then try and establish a context — is this a once off event or a pattern of behaviour that needs to be addressed more strictly
as a doctor having a duty of care –> i cant be complicit in this kind of behaviour

explore underlying issues and if i can help at all
issues at home or work
anything going on i can help
offer assistance –> occupational health, addiction services, PHMP practitioners health matters programme

if they are resistant to leave work in their drunken state = involve others of higher levels
reg –> consultant –> intern tutor

would suggest they self-report this incident to HR, but if not i will

what if they say they can get on with it today?
lack insight — dangerous!!!
have a duty to protect patients

what would be different if illegal drugs were used?
completely different. more serious approach as i cannot be complicit with illegal drug use

ESSENTIALLY:
if concerned about colleague’s health or professional competence due to misuse of alcohol or drugs, physical or psychological disorder —- primary duty = protect patients

if risk to patient safety
current risk = inform relevant authority of ur concerns w/o delay
no current risk = advise colleague to seek expert professional help + consider referral to medical council’s health committee

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flesh eating bug

intern on a busy team
patient swabs positive for MRSA but has no wound infection
nurse told him and he is v.upset –> thinks its a flesh eating bug
wants to talk to a Dr immediately and wants to discharge himself

how would u explain the difference between colonised and infected?

explain if MRSA is a flesh eating buy

A

how to explain difference between colonised & infected:
our body has alot of bacteria that lives on our skin and surfaces. theyre just sitting there and not doing any harm, they may help with our digestion or help fight off other bacteria that can do harm.
in your case, the MRSA is a bacteria that can infect vulnerable people but for you theyre just living on your skin and not doing any harm

however as this bacteria can harm other people or harm you if you go into a vulnerable state, we still need to treat it

this is done via mupirocin nasal ointment or body wash for 5 days
then repeat the swab to make sure you no longer have it

it is not a flesh eating bug, it is a bacteria that is sitting on your skin and not doing harm

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discharge form

have you seen a medical discharge against medical advice form?

do you think it is a good thing to get the patient to sign?

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conflict between patient rights and a doctor’s duty of care

ideally a discharge against medical advice should be avoided at all costs —> risk of sig patient harm + to safety

partnership between patients and doctors is a core pillar of professionalism

if possible this should be avoided by
discussing the patient’s concerns — why they what to leave + apologise if an apology is due
do a capacity assessment — ensure patient knows of the risks involved
involve a senior team member + family member (if the patient consents)

if the patient still decides to self discharge
arrange follow up and other preparations to ensure a safe discharge
and facilitate the patiens as much as possible

it is not signing away a doctors responsibility

safety net: the door is always open if they want to come back — dont hesitate to

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16
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the pill prescription

14 y/o girl in long term relationship wants contraception —- is sensible enough to ask for it

what type of follow up would you put in place?

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(essentially = see again in 3-4 wks, check BP, build rapport ensure she isnt being taken advantage of, keep regular follow up)

this is a complicated situation
age of medical consent in Ireland is 16
illegal to have coitus under the age of 17
but not prescribing contraception to her could put her at risk of having an undesired pregnancy and cause more harm to her

start with a history
what is the contraception for
find out ICE for it
get a context
is this girl currently in a sexual relationship
how old is her partner
benefit vs harm of not prescribing — patient safety is no.1 priority
is there a reason she dw to involve her parents in this discussion — encourage (but not force) her to do so

assess Gillick competence
(ie if a person is <16 y/o but can understand what is being proposed + the implications = they are competent to consent regardless of age)

inform patient that barrier contraception is still required to prevent STIs

contraception may change her mood slightly

safety netting that due to risk of raised blood pressure, will need to see her in 3-4 weeks and can talkagain then

what is your biggest concern regarding the pill in general?
many C/I
CVS — IHD, Hx CVD, high BP
migraine w aura
liver cirrhosis
DM w complications
smoker — >15 cig/day + >35 y/o

also complications
thrombogenic

17
Q

fake age

patient on your team
told by the daughter that they have been lying about the patient’s age — you thought she was 72 but she is 92
they’ve falsified her records because younger people get looked after better

how would you approach this?
if the patient denies the accusations, what would u do regarding the daughter?

A

(essentially = act acc to biological age not chronological age)

no.1 priority = patient safety

complicated issue

explore where this is coming from
have there been issues in the past where she felt she wasnt given the best care, what was the situation and why was it blamed on her age
if true = acknowledge that this may have been done in what she perceived to be the best interests of the mother, but could potentially be dangerous

no difference in care, typically go according to biological age not chronolgical age.
potentially dangerous as clinical decisions are backed by research, which may indicate age as a reason for an intervention being ineffective or even dangerous and we do take it into consideration because it is evidence backed research

also DOB is used as a patient identifier, so if you suddenly change the DOB, past records that may be helpful for the team to look over wont have been accessed and checked, reducing the quality of patient care

partnership between patients and the MDT is a core pillar of professionalism and it is important to maintain this partnership with trust

self reflect on whether i have ever made decisions based on a patients chronological age rather than biological age

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Q

non disclosure to patients

patient w LRTI in his 90s w lung mass on CXR
family say they dw the patient to be made aware
they dw any further Ix of the mass — he is living a great life

how would you approach this?

A

the family should definitely be consulted when making decisions (as long as there is patient consent), but they cannot make the decisions for the patient.

i would make the patient aware that there is a mass on the CXR.

I would ask him how much investigations he would like us to do regarding the mass and what amount of information he would like to know.

if he does choose for no further investigations and does not want any treatment for the mass
i would explain to him the possible implications of that decision
if he still refuses, i would assess capacity
if capacity is intact i would respect his decision

if he lacks capacity
it would then be an MDT meeting regarding what is best for the patient, given his current baseline function and QoL, what are his other co-morbidities and his expected life expectancy
if it was a cancer would we even be able to do anything for him or should he be put to palliative care anyway
a decision can then be made with his best interests in mind

19
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error

you make a medication error

or a DVT has occured in a patient you forgot to chart prophylactic LMWH that you were supposed to

A

no. 1 priority = patient safety
i would immediately stop the medication (or cancel it in the kardex) ie correct the mistake
if there is any treatment needs to be given to the patient i would give the treatment
i would also do a clinical assessment to check for any adverse drug reactions — checking vitals, doing a quick physical exam

OPEN DISCLOSURE:
i would then be open and honest with the patient
i have made a mistake, explain the mistake
apologise for making the mistake, promising that i wont repeat the same mistake
explain what has been done to correct the error and reduce the risk of a recurrence

i would clearly document in the notes the mistake i made and fill out an incident form (Datex system)

i would then self reflect on why this mistake occured, how can it be avoided in the future.

is apology an admission of fault?
suspected mistakes should also be informed even if no harm was done
as doctors we have a duty of care to the patient
when mistakes are made we need to audit why it happened are there ways to prevent it from happening again
we must report incidents, talk to a senior

how to prepare for mistakes?
acknowledge that they will happen as no one is infallible
be comfortable seeking help
have colleagues and friends in work who you can trust and seek advice from
be helpful and compassionate when colleagues make mistakes and learn from their mistakes too
honesty
professionalism
if you always endeavour to put the patient first — owning up to mistakes is alot more straight forward

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data breach

find printed patient list on the ground with details of patient names, what they came in with, whats going on right now, MRNs

what would u do?

A

no. 1 priority = patient safety

remove data from the public area

immediately report the data breach to a senior (ie my consultant)

risk assess

inform all data owners that there has been a breach — apologise + provide steps taken to stop this from happening in the future

fill in an incident form

reflect — what have you learnt + how will you use this to prevent in the future

how can you avoid this problem?
check pockets before leaving the hospital — never remove patients details from the hospital even if ure doing an audit

reg adds you to a whatsapp group, asks u to send a picture of the wound u think is infected –> how would u respond?
patient sensitive details cannot be sent through whatsapp as it is not secured and data is not erased

if absolutely necessary — i would
seek patients/guardians consent prior to sending data
use HSE/hospital approved contact platform (eg. siilo) or even email
cover the patient details but if the patient cannot be identified it is still their data

review information governance alliance

21
Q

5 steps of breaking bad news acc to Irish hospice foundation

A

PMWAP

  1. prepare yourself
    set time aside
    have all the relevant facts
    have someone with you
  2. make a good connection
    sit down
    introduce yourself
    build on what the person knows
  3. warning shot
    give warning
    pause a moment to internalise
    then break the news
  4. acknowledge the shock
    validate emotions
    deal with any concerns
  5. plan and follow up
    what will happen next
    identify supports & contacts