Emotional Survival Flashcards
How do recruits usually feel on graduation day?
It is a time of high spirits, they feel a tangible sense of accomplishment for getting through the academy and believe in the promise that an exciting and fulfilling career is just beginning.
Do recruits generally stay in touch with fellow students?
They can often flourish over years of shared service into lifelong friendships.
Are all changes in a new recruit positive ones?
No, one of the first costs of the journey through a police career can be the old friendships that predate police work.
What is a negative to new recruits relying on the support of more experienced officers?
Although experienced officers do know the job and the streets, often the rest of their lives do not run as effectively.
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The message passed along to new recruits by veterans is often incomplete. It focuses on the job only.
Do new recruits earn the respect of veteran officers easily?
No way.The trust of other cops is often an uphill battle. Being accepted and trusted is the major goal during the first few years.
How do new officers become accepted by veterans?
It is earned only when the younger officers can demonstrate that they can be counted on in tough situations and they can be trusted when the chips are down.
Social isolation
As the years pass, many officers experience social isolation from everyone except other cops.
What are positive outlooks and emotions replaced by?
Dark, moody, negative views of the world
What happens to their personal lives?
They often become strained, distant, and dysfunctional.
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Idealism can become cynicism, optimistic enthusiasm can become pessimism, and the easygoing young recruit can become the angry and negative veteran police officer.
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The job takes on more and more of the officer’s time and becomes more than just a job-it can become the central and defining aspect of the officer’s life.
What happens to the significant people in the officer’s life?
They can find themselves pushed aside, searching for a way to adapt to these changes or risk losing the relationship. Marriages strain and break, children become alienated from parental emotional support, and
Describe the relationship that can often occur between the officer and the people in his life.
The new officer can become emotionally distant, hardened, or physically absent from the lives of the people sharing the journey through the police career from the home front.
Are the changes in the officer’s life often addressed?
No, they are rarely, if ever, spoken of in the police culture. Also they are rarely seen as a major priority to correct.
How are recruits told to deal with these changes?
Recruits are told that the job takes its toll, but they are hardly ever told or shown how to minimize the negative effects of the journey through the police career.
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Helping officers keep their personal lives intact is not a priority for many law enforcement agencies. Typically, agencies give no strategies or preventative game plans to the recruit.
Are these issues isolated to just a few officers?
These changes impact many new officers and families. Look around any law enforcement agency and see the wreckage, personal and professional.
What changes occur first?
Emotional changes, such as
How do veteran officers view their life when looking back on their career?
They look at the journey through the police career from a very different perspective.
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The officer’s journey, all too often, takes its toll-a toll in world-view-and outlook from positive to negative, from idealistic to cynical, from physically active and fit to sedentary and potentially unhealthy.
What are some of the costs of the journey through a police career?
1Professionally, minor dissatisfaction with the organization or agency can become all-consuming anger, hostility, and open hatred toward the management hierarchy of the police agency. Personally,failed marriages, children in trouble, life views dominated by negativity, social isolation and alienation from fellow human beings.
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The veteran officer retiring after twenty or more years of service may not even vaguely resemble the positive, committed, and highly motivated recruit who began the journey.
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The scars, both physically and emotionally are all too often clearly visible.