Conflict Structure/Phases of Conflict Flashcards
What is the Active Arguing Stage?
Stage during which parties quarrel over the solution to a problem situation.
What are the prior conditions stage?
Having past experiences, attitudes, values, beliefs, morals, etc
What is the Frustration Awareness Stage?
Someone feels frustration, hurt, or anger, but is still internal.
What is the Trigger event in the Frustration Awareness Stage?
Who/whatever causes the hurt/frustration/anger.
True or False: The trigger event doesn’t have to come from the person you are in conflict with.
True
What is the Active Conflict Stage?
Identifying what the issue is using various skills and thinking about transitive goals. Using gestures (hopefully to our advantage).
What is the Solution/nonsolution stage?
Solutions that are either offered then may more to the follow-up stage. Can also argue about the solution. NONSOLUTION - Arguing continues over solutions until someone walks away
What is the Followup Stage?
After you agreed to a solution, you keep tabs on the other person to see if they’re following what was agreed.
What is the Resolved Stage?
When the conflict issue is no longer affecting your relationship or bothering you. Must be true for BOTH parties.