Close Relationships Flashcards
attachment
global orientation towards relationships
relational schema
set of beliefs, attitudes, and expectations regarding ourselfs, others, relationships in general
attachment theory
infants form close bonds with caregivers because it promotes proximity and sense of security
how has the innate attachment system evolved
people are motivated to stay safe/close
childhood experiences create an internal working model of self and others which
influence personality development and social bx
in response to stressful situations, attachment system can
direct our response
secure babies
caregivers are responsive, sensitive to expressions of need
anxious/ambivalent babies
caregivers don’t always detect when child is in need - inconsistently responsive
avoidant babies
emotionall unavailable/rejecting caregivers
difference between adult-adult attachment and infant-caregiver attachment
adult-adult can be a sexual system, symmetry (undefined roles between the two adults), security can exist without physical contact
low anxiety of self, low avoidance of others
secure type secure self, comfotable with intimacy and autonomy
high anxiety of self, low avoidance of others
preoccupied type - preoccupied with relationships (ruminates), overly seeks intimacy, jealous, clingy
low anxiety of self, high avoidance of others
dismissing type - secure self, not trusting, distance themselves,casual sex, break-ups
high anxiety of self, high avoidance of others
fearful type - preoccupied with relationships, not trusting, fearful of and avoids intimacy, break-ups
anxiety of self
how afraid are you of abandonment?