Chapter 9: Relationships & Attraction Flashcards
Researchers must rely on — to examine the dynamics that unfold over time in preexisting relationships. There is always the concern of – bias
longitudinal methods
self-selection
human beings (and many other kinds of animals) have what appears to be ——- for belonging in —–
a biological need
relationships
Why do we have a biological need to belong?
- relationships help individual and their offspring survive
- friendships is a means for non-kin to cooperate in survival-related tasks (gathering food and fighting predators)
What did Harlow’s rhesus monkey experiment show?
- evidence for the biological need to belong
- monkeys preferred the surrogate that looked like a monkey rather than on the one that provided food
what is evidence for the marriage benefit?
- mortality rates are higher for divorced, unmarried, and widowed people
- suicide and crime rathers are also lighter for single and divorced people
What is a communal relationship?
Individuals in the relationship feel a special responsibility for one another and often expect the relationship to be LONG TERM (family-like identity)
- individuals give and receive according the whoever has a greater NEED
What is an EXCHANGE RELATIONSHIP?
- trade based
- short term
- no special responsibility for one another’s well-being
- governed by equity (get what you give) and reciprocity
- salespeople, workers
Even the most intimate relationships to a certain extent is based on —-
Rewards
What is the SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
Humans (wanting to maximize their own satisfaction) seek rewards in their interaction with others and are willing to pay certain costs to obtain those rewards
What is the COMPARISON LEVEL?
The expectations people have about what they should get out of a relationship
- high comparison level: expect more from relationships
- low comparison level: expect less from relationships
standard for social exchange theory of relationships
What is the comparison level for alternatives?
- the outcomes people think they can get out of alternative relationships
- if there are many alternative people/options, more likely to have a higher comparison level
What is the equity theory?
- too many rewards and two few costs in a relationship seems unfair
- people are motivated to pursue fairness/equity in their relationships
- individualistic cultures
What is the ATTACHMENT THEORY?
Early attachments with our parents and other primary caregivers shape our relationships for the rest of our lives
What are the 3 attachments types according to the attachment theory?
Secure: easy to get close with others and comfortable depending on them
Avoidant: caregivers distant; attempts to be intimate are rebuffed
Anxious-ambivalent: caregivers are inconsistent
What is the anxiety dimension of attachment?
Amount of fear a person feels about rejection and abandonment within close relationships
What is the avoidance dimension of attachment?
The degree to which a person is comfortable with intimacy and dependence in adult relationships or finds them aversive
A securely attached person is —-
Low in the anxiety dimension of attachment and low in avoidance dimension of attachment
how and the housing in westgate west demonstrate friendship formation?
Increase proximity = increase friendships because it facilitates chance encounters
What is functional distance?
how easy it is to come into contact with a person
became easier in digital age
What is the mere exposure effect?
The idea that repeated exposure to a stimulus, such as an object/person leads to greater liking of the stimulus
What is complementarity?
The tendency for people to seek out others with characteristics that are different from / complement their own, but only works when the needs of one person is met by the other
What is the halo effect
The common belief (accurate or not) that attractive individuals possess a host of positive qualities beyond physical appearance
what is beautiful is good
What is reproductive fitness?
The capacity to pair one’s gener on to subsequent generations
In terms of proximity to form friendships, - distance is more important then - distance
Functional, physical