Chapter 9: Personal Relationships Flashcards

1
Q

Involve the act of relating and allowing your person to connect with others.

A

Personal Relationships

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2
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Teenage Relationships

A

Parents and Family
Friends and Peers
Romantic Relationship
Casual Relationship

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3
Q

Are integral part of your lives.

A

Parents and Family

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4
Q

The level of closeness to, support of and communication with the ________ can have an impact on your future romantic relationships.

A

family

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5
Q

You are likely to emulate and imbibe the behaviors and attitudes of your parents and family towards conflicts, finances, intimacy and commitment.

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Parents and Family

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6
Q

Outside of the family, you also relate to your _____________, some of whom you may have known since childhood. Some of them may have established or formed new friends with you in high school.

A

Friends and Peers

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7
Q

________________ can be your stronghold and support, providing you with sense of belonging, value and security.

A

Good friends

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8
Q

They can be a source of information related to physical and emotional during this stage of development.

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Friends and Peers

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9
Q

This is relating with the element and taste of romance.

A

Romantic Relationship

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10
Q

It is part of the major developmental milestone that involves the physical, social and emotional aspects of a person, partly characterized by his/her growing interest and desire for independence, space, and privacy

A

Romantic Relationship

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11
Q

Is a pleasurable feeling based on attraction to another person.

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Romance

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12
Q

This type of relationship without a real and defined sense of seriousness and commitment.

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Casual Relationship

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13
Q

May mean non-committal.

A

Casual

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14
Q

Depth and intensity are not part of this kind of relationship.

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Casual Relationship

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15
Q

For adolescents this is a passing experience and may not have a strong reason to look back to.

A

Casual Relationship

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16
Q

The Dynamics of Attraction, Love and Commitment

A

Attraction
Going Steady
Love
Commitment

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17
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

An invisible force brings you closer to what causes you to be interested. You ask, “ What is in the person” what draws you closer to him/her.

A

TRUE

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17
Q

When you are attracted to something or someone, your interest is heightened.

A

Attraction

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18
Q

They say ____________ is a gift to man.

A

attraction

19
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

There is still a reason to be with another person if you are not attracted in
any way to him/her.

A

FALSE

There is no reason to be with another person if you are not attracted in any way to him/her.

20
Q

Refers to the “act, process, or power of attracting and evoking interest, pleasure,
liking for someone”

A

Attraction

21
Q

Forms of Attractions

A

Crush
Courtship

22
Q

An adolescent may be attracted to another person, and such attraction may be
labeled as a ________.

A

Crush

23
Q

This includes stages in the romantic relationship whereby one gets to know more about other person in an exclusive manner through dating.

A

Courtship

24
Q

Emulating the observed admirable qualities of the person can be
considered an identity _________.

A

Crush

25
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

Another form of crush can be romantic or intense infatuation for someone.

A

TRUE

26
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

Some go dating to simply be with each other.

A

TRUE

27
Q

Is a stage where two individuals officially decide to deepen their relationship by leveling up their commitment through higher exclusivity.

A

Going Steady

28
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

Engaging in an exclusive relationship is a not preparation for marriage.

A

FALSE

An adolescent should, thus, be informed that engaging in an exclusive relationship is a preparation for marriage.

29
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

You can easily declare that you are in love.

A

TRUE

29
Q

Being in ______, for most people, may mean being very happy, or being on cloud nine, or living in a dream land.

A

Love

30
Q

Psychologist __________ identifies three components of love;

A

Zick Rubin

31
Q

Three components of love

A

Attachment
Caring
Intimacy

32
Q

Refers to the desire for the presence of the other person, which includes emotional support.

A

Attachment

33
Q

Refers to the concern for the other person’s well-being.

A

Caring

34
Q

Refers to the desire for privacy, closeness and communication.

A

Intimacy

35
Q

Helps maintain and sustain relationships despite varied challenges.

A

Commitment

35
Q

For __________ commitment is a cognitive
process. It happens in the mind and is conscious effort to
decision to love another person.

A

Sternberg

36
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

You commit to stay with the person as promised or even vowed in marriage

A

TRUE

37
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

Schools define unacceptable behavior through the students’ handbook

A

TRUE

38
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

Unacceptable behavior among adolescents is not determined based on varied perspectives such as religion and social norms.

A

FALSE

Unacceptable behavior among adolescents is determined based on varied perspectives such as religion and social norms.

39
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

Behavior considered acceptable by some schools may include public display of affection.

A

FALSE

Behavior considered unacceptable by some schools may include public display of affection.

40
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

A lot of adolescents say that they are just curious about physical intimacy because this is not openly discussed at home.

A

TRUE

A lot of adolescents say that they are just curious about physical intimacy because this is not openly discussed at home.

41
Q

TRUE OR FALSE

Majority of them simply rely on their initiative to learn about physical intimacy until they find them selves engaging in premarital sex.

A

TRUE

42
Q

Being _________ means being able to properly respond to varied challenging situations related to relationships.

A

responsible