Chapter 8: Exam 2 Flashcards
Two broad dimensions of child-rearing
*Warmth - Coldness
*Restrictiveness - Permissiveness
Upbringing, beliefs, or genetics reflect one’s parenting style.
Warm Parents
Affectionate (hug and kiss), caring and supportive, and less likely to use physical discipline
*Children are more likely to develop standards of conduct and a moral sense of consciousness.
Cold Parents
Few feelings of affection and complain about children’s behavior
Restrictive Parents
Impose rules and watch their children closely, consistent control and firm enforcement of rules having positive consequences for the child, combined with solid support and affection. (authoritative style)
***However, if physical punishment, interference, or intrusiveness arises, children may begin to become disobedient, rebellious, and have low cognitive levels
Permissive Parent
Supervise the children less, allow them to do what is “natural” like making noises, treat toys carelessly, and experiment with their bodies.
How parents enforce restrictions
Parents tend to use:
a. Induction method
b. Power-assertive method
c. Withdrawal of Love method
For enforcing restrictions
Inductive Method
Teach knowledge that will enable children to generate desirable behavior on their own with “reasoning” or explain why one kind of behavior is good, and another is not.
*Fosters Prosocial behavior such as helping and sharing
Power-assertive Method
Including physical punishment and denial of privileges. Justified by the statement, “Spare the rod, spoil the child” (involves the authoritarian parent as well as the child’s behavior)
*Associated with lower acceptance by peers, poorer grades, and more antisocial behavior in children
Withdrawal of Love Method
Isolate or ignore misbehaving children, can be more threatening than physical punishment.
*Fosters compliance but also instills guilt and anxiety
Baumrind Grid of four parenting styles
a. Authoritative
b. Authoritarian
c. Permissive - Indulgent
d. Rejecting - Neglecting
Parenting style may change due to situations
Authoritative
A child-rearing style in which parents are restrictive and demanding yet communicative and warm. Reason with children and provide strong support and feelings of love.
*Children are self-reliant and independent, have high self-esteem, high levels of activity, exploratory behaviors, and social competence
Authoritarian
A child-rearing style in which parents demand submission and obedience. Motto: “Because I say so.”
*Children are anxious, irritable, and restrained in their social interactions. As adolescents, they might be conforming and obedient but have low self-reliance and self-esteem. Maybe less friendly and less spontaneous.
- Sons of these parents are relatively hostile and defiant.
Permissive - indulgent
A child-rearing style in which parents are warm and not restrictive. Easy-going and unconventional (warmth and support) accompanied by high nurturance.
*Children less competent in school but high in social behaviors.
Rejecting - Neglecting
A child-rearing style in which parents are neither restrictive and controlling nor supportive and responsive.
*Children are least competent, responsible, or mature. Less competent in school and show more misconduct and substance abuse than children of more restrictive, controlling parents
Power Assertion
- Likely due to stress
- Child’s aggressive behavior
- When the parent believed the child knew the rules and could behave appropriately
Parenting Good Practices
- Preschoolers comply better when asked to do something rather than to stop doing something (redirection)
- Engage the child in something else when they are involved are displaying inappropriate behavior (redirection)
True or Fiction
Parents who demand mature behavior wind up with rebellious children, not mature children
Fiction
As long as parents are not severe with the children, consistent controls and firm enforcement of rules can have positive consequences for their children
Influence of Siblings
Serve many functions:
*physical care
*emotional support
*nurturance
*offering advice
*serving as role models
*providing social interaction that helps develop social skills
*making demand & imposing restrictions
Sibling’s Pros and Cons
Positive: Cooperation, teaching, and nurturance
Negative: Conflict, control, and competition
Conflict between siblings
Occur when:
- Parents play favorites
- The relationships between the parents and children are troubled
Adjusting to the birth of a sibling
Often a source of stress for preschoolers because of changes in family relationships
Regression
A return to behavior characteristic of earlier stages of development (clinging, crying, or toilet accidents)
Birth Order - First Born
Firstborns are more highly motivated to achieve than later-born children.
They appear to perform better academically and are more cooperative (obtain higher IQ & SAT scores)
Studies suggest that they are more adult-oriented and less aggressive
However, they show greater anxiety levels and somewhat less self-reliant
True or Fiction
First-born children are more likely motivated to achieve than later-born children
True
Research shows that first-born children are more motivated to achieve than later-born children. However, the difference is a group difference and does not apply to all first- or later-born children.
Birth Order - Later Born
*They may learn to be more aggressive in competing for the attention of their parents and older siblings.
*Self-concepts are lower than those of first-born or only children, but social skills they acquire from dealing with their family position seem to translate into greater popularity with peers.
*Tend to be more rebellious and liberal
Peer Relations
*Foster social skills - sharing, helping, taking turns, & dealing with conflict
*Groups teach how to lead and how to follow
- Physical & Cognitive skills develops as well as emotional support
By age 2, children imitate one another’s play and engage in social games (like follow the leader). They begin to show preferences for particular playmates (as early signs of friendships)
Friendship
Characterized by shared positive experiences and feelings of attachment
Play-Child’s Play
*Meaningful, pleasurable, and internally motivated
*Helps promote motor skills and coordination
Dramatic Play
Play in which children enact social roles. Supports the development of cognitive qualities like curiosity, exploration, symbolic thinking, and problem solving
Piaget kinds of play that increase cognitive complexity
- Functional Play
- Symbolic Play
- Constructive Play
- Formal Games
Functional Play
Repetitive motor activity, such as rolling a ball, running and laughing
(Sensorimotor stage)
Symbolic Play
AKA: Pretend play, imaginative play, or dramatic play
End of the sensorimotor stage and increases during early childhood. Children create settings, characters, and scripts