Chapter 7: Communication Flashcards
What constitutes as communication in negotiation
Communication processes, both verbal and nonverbal, are critical to achieving negotiation goals and to resolving conflicts.
Verbal
- use of language
Non-verbal
- making eye contact
- adjusting body position
What are distortions in communication (List 7)**
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- Individual communicators (the individual)
The more (diverse their goals or the more antagonistic they are in their relationship), the greater the likelihood that (distortions and errors) in communication will occur - Messages
The symbolic forms by which information is communicated – Content, tone, etc
(The more we use symbolic communication, the more likely the symbols may not accurately communicate the meaning we intend**) - Encoding
- the process by which messages are put into symbolic form - Channels and media
- messages are subject to distortion from channel noise or other form of interference - Reception
The process of comprehension by receiving messages and decoding them into an understandable form
It might not be possible to capture fully the other’s meaning, tone or words - Interpretation
- process of ascertaining meaning and significance of decoded messages for situation to go forward
- important way to avoid problems is by giving other party feedback - Feedback
- process of how receiver reacts to sender’s message
- absence of feedback can contribute to distortions by influencing offers negotiators make
How to improve communication in negotiation
1: Via Listening
- Passive listening: Receiving the message while
providing no feedback to the sender - Acknowledgment: Receivers nod their heads, maintain eye contact, or interject responses
- Active listening: Receivers restate or paraphrase the sender’s message in their own language
- Negotiators understand the other party’s positions by actively arguing these positions until the other party is convinced that he or she is understood
“You have no idea because you have never been in my shoes…”
What is the positive/negative impact of the role reversal technique
Positive: Effective in producing cognitive changes and attitude changes
- assumption is to understand roles accurately
Negative: if person has experienced being in the same role but still fails to understand –> sucks
How should one respond to tough situations
(Situation- Possible Response) (List 6)
- Take it or Leave it
- Is it okay if I took some time to think about it - Pressured towards unreasonable deadline
- What is so special about deciding this afternoon? Can we wait till tomorrow instead? - Highball or Lowball
- What is your reasoning behind this offer? - Impasse
- What can we do to close the gaps in our negotiations - If challenged when offer is unfair
- share with me what you think is a fair offer - Attempt to pressure control and manipulate
- Can you share with me your sources of pressure for concluding these negotiations?
What are some special communication considerations to note at the end of negotiations (list 2)
- Avoiding fatal mistakes
Avoid surrendering important information needlessly (ethical considerations e.g. defects, delays, etc.)
Refrain from making “dumb remarks” – “actually I was prepared to pay more…” - Achieving closure
Accept offers, compromise priorities, do trade offs