Chapter 6 - The Self Flashcards
What is the self-concept?
An organized collection of beliefs about the self
What are these beliefs also called?
Self-schemas
What do self-schemas include?
Personality traits, abilities, physical features, values, goals and social roles
What does possible selves refer to?
One’s conceptions about the kind of person one might become in the future
What three self perceptions do individuals have?
An actual self, an ideal self and an ought self
What is the actual self?
Qualities people think they actually possess
What is the ideal self?
Qualities people would like to have
What is the ought self?
Qualities people think they should possess
What are self-discrepancies?
Mismatches between the actual, ideal, and or/ought selves
What happens when the actual self falls short of the ideal self?
We feel dejected and sad (depression)
What happens when the actual self falls short of the ought self?
We feel irritable and guilty (anxiety related disorders)
What two ways do people cope with self-discrepancies (1)?
By changing their behaviour to bring it more in line with the ideal, or ought self
(2)
Blunting self-awareness by avoiding situations that increase self awareness or by using alcohol
What does Festinger’s (1954) social comparison theory state?
That we compare ourselves with others in order to assess and/ or improve our abilities
What is a reference group?
A set of people who are used as a gauge in making social comparisons
When do we choose inferior or superior reference groups?
We choose inferior reference groups if we want to bolster self esteem and superior reference groups if we want to improve
In what direction (positive or negative) are observations of our own behaviour subjective and distorted in?
A positive direction
What “effect” can social comparisons be affected by
The N-effect
What is the N-effect?
The smaller the comparison group, the greater our tendency to be competitive and inflate our self-concept
What happens in distortion of self images?
People see themselves differently than how others see them, and self images tend to be distorted in a positive direction
What is important in balancing our own observations?
Feedback from others
What feedback do we get early in life?
Parents and family members are the primary influences
What feedback is presented as children age?
Teachers, coaches and peers become progressively more important
What feedback is important later in life?
Close friends and marriage partners play dominant roles
How does social context affect our self-concept?
We may view ourselves more, or less critically, depending on the situation
What is individualism?
Putting personal goals ahead of group goals
What happens in cultures that value individualism?
Identity is defined more in terms of personal attributes
What is collectivism?
Putting group goals ahead of personal goals
What happens in cultures that value collectivism?
Identity is defined more in terms of the groups that one belongs to
What are the views of people raised in individualistic cultures?
Have an independent view of the self, view themselves as unique, self contained and distinct from others
What are the views of people raised in collectivist cultures?
Have an interdependent view of the self, view themselves as more connected to others
What does self-esteem refer to?
One’s overall assessment of one’s worth as a person, a global evaluation of many aspects of the self
What two ways can self-esteem can be construed?
Trait self-esteem and state self-esteem
What is trait self-esteem?
An enduring sense of confidence in a person
What is state self-esteem?
Dynamic feelings about the self that change with the situation
What is a popular measure of self-esteem?
The Rosenberg self-esteem scale
What is self-esteem strongly and consistently connected to?
Happiness
What is characteristic of people with high self-esteem?
They feel more likeable and attractive, have better relationships, and make better impressions on others, persist longer in the face of failure and cope better with setbacks
What has self-esteem not been linked to?
Achievement
What is narcissism?
The tendency to regard oneself as grandiosely self-important, is pathological and different for high self-esteem, a healthy trait
What are some characteristics about narcissistic individuals?
They are preoccupied with fantasies of success, they believe they deserve special treatment, and they react aggressively when their view of themselves (ego) is threatened
What is included in the path from narcissism to aggression?
Individuals with high narcissism perceive negative evaluations by others to be threatening and so will react more aggressively in response than those with low narcissism
What two dimensions play important roles in shaping self-esteem early in life?
Parental acceptance and parental control
What are the four parenting styles taking into consideration parental acceptance and parental control?
Authoritarian (low acceptance, high control), Authoritative (high acceptance, high control), Neglectful (low acceptance, low control), and Permissive (high acceptance, low control)