Chapter 5 & 10: Peers & (Friends) Intimacy Flashcards
How do peer groups change during adolescence? [2]
Within-individual changes:
- Cognitive: Development of a more complex understanding of relationships.
- Puberty: Increased interest in romantic relationships and a desire for distance from parents.
How do childhood friendships differ from adolescent friendships? - Childhood [2]
- Typically involves 3-4 friends.
- Relationships are based on shared activities.
How do childhood friendships differ from adolescent friendships? - Adolescence [3]
- Emphasis on intimacy, trust and loyalty.
- More time spent with friends, often in unsupervised settings.
- Increased contact between males and females.
How do parents and peers influence adolescents? [5]
- Quality of time with friends changes over time:
- Grade 4: Primarily parents.
- Grade 7: Same-sex friends and parents.
- Grade 10: Focus on same-sex friendships.
- Late adolescence and college: Shift towards romantic partners.
What role do parents play in adolescent relationships? [2]
- Warmth and closeness with parents can lead to closer relationships with friends.
- Adolescents may seek more acceptance from peers than from parents.
What are the implications of dysfunctional family dynamics on peer relationships? [2]
- Increased likelihood of affiliation with deviant peers.
- Higher rates of delinquency and mental health problems.
What is Sullivan’s theory of interpersonal development? [4]
- Says that there’s a distinction between intimacy and sexuality.
- Goal: Establish intimacy along with sexual contact.
- Key: Security in relationships.
- Intimacy develops before sexuality, starting in same-sex friendships.
How does attachment predict intimacy in relationships? [3]
- Internal working model determines levels of trust or apprehension.
- Working models with parents reflect in friendships and romantic relationships.
- Rejection sensitivity can lead to increased depression and anxiety.
How does attachment style affect intimacy? [4]
- Secure: Trusts others and feels safe.
- Anxious-avoidant: Doesn’t care much about being close to others.
- Anxious-resistant: Feels confused and worried in relationships.
- Disorganized: Has trouble with forming any close bonds.
What are the sex differences in intimacy and peer relationships? - Girls [3]
- Experience more intimacy in friendships and romantic relationships.
- Mental health more affected by friends.
- Co-rumination can create a cycle of depression and anxiety.
What are the sex differences in intimacy and peer relationships? - Boys [1]
Less likely to feel jealousy; conflicts are brief and often resolved with humor.
What are the sex differences in intimacy and peer relationships? - Overall [2]
- Friendships and partner relationships are typically less stressful than relationships with parents.
- Intimacy with parents declines during adolescence but often restores in adulthood.
What functions do friendships serve? - Socialization [1]
Learning social norms beyond the family.
What functions do friendships serve? - [4] types of social support (Berndt)
- Informational: Guidance and advice.
- Instrumental: Help with tangible tasks (e.g., homework).
- Companionship: Spending time together and engaging in activities.
- Esteem: Boosting confidence and self-worth.
How do friendships contribute to social and emotional development? [3]
- Social skills acquisition: Learning how to interact effectively.
- Information sources for self-knowledge and regulation skills.
- Intimacy: Sharing knowledge, thoughts, and feelings.
What are the implications of peer relationships on well-being? - Cross-sectional studies [1]
Supportive friendships lead to better psychological outcomes and lower depression.
What are the implications of peer relationships on well-being? - Longitudinal studies [2]
- Supportive friendships are associated with higher self-esteem, lower depression, and improved academic outcomes.
- Mixed relations with risky behavior.