CHAPTER 3 Flashcards
what are changes in families today?
more single people, less children, changes in childcare, more women in workforce, more divorce and remarriages, same sex
which province waited longest before having their first child?
BC
are Canadian women waiting longer to have children?
yes
how do older mothers feel about parenting?
feel more responsible, enjoy it more and have more positive affect
how do older fathers feel about parenting?
3x as likely to have regular responsibility for some part of children’s daily care
what 2 dimensions do parents differ on in terms of parenting styles?
emotionality and control
what can emotionality range form?
warmth to rejecting
what can control range from?
demanding to permissive
define authoritative parenting
high acceptance and involvement, adaptive conrtrol and appropriate autonomy
encourages children to be independent but places limits and controls on action
verbal give and take is allowed
what are authoritative outcomes?
mature, self controlled, self reliance, achievement oriented, good peer relations and school performance, warmth and involvement
what are peer relationships of children with authoritative parents?
lower level of peer conformity, higher social competence and adjustment, positive peer relationships that buffer neg family influences
term to describe authoritative parenting
warm and sensitive
define authoritarian parenting
restrictive, punitive style where parents force child to follow parents direction and respect work and effort
firm limit and control placed, little verbal exchange is allowed
what are outcomes of authoritarian parenting?
fearful, anxious, vulnerable to stress, low self esteem, commit lower antisocial acts
define indulgent/permissive parenting
few demands/control on kids, can do what they want, free expression of child’s impulses, high autonomy
what terms describe authoritarian parenting
“because I said so”
outcomes of indulgent/permissive parents?
dependent, demanding on adults, few goals
define uninvolved parenting
parent uninvolved with child’s life, indifferent or neglectful, minimize cost in time and effort with child, little monitoring
outcomes of uninvolved parents
poor school achievement, self esteem and delinquency
what punishment is used at adolescence?
monitoring (importance of family dinner) and psychological control
what punishment is used at school age?
psychological control
what punishment is used at 4 years old?
almost 60% spanked
what punishment is used at 2 years old?
81% report yelling in anger, 45% spanking
what punishment is used at 12 months?
1/3 parents use coercive discipling (slapping, threatening, removing toys)
what is the relationship between corporal punishment and outcomes in childhood/adulthood
poor moral interalizaion, quality of relations with parent, mental health, increased rates of criminal/antisocial behaviour and rates of abuse of own child/spouse
what is associated with insecure avoidant attachment?
intrusive and rejecting parenting
what is associated with insecure ambivalent attachment?
unaffectionate and inconsistent parenting
what is associated with insecure disorganization attachment?
neglectful/abusive parenting