Chapter 2: The Self in a Social World Flashcards
Spotlight Effect
Putting ourselves in the spotlight, assuming others are paying attention to us
Illusion of Transparency
Our awareness of our feelings causes us to assume others will notice them
How our Social Surroundings Affect Our Awareness
We are keenly aware of differences between us and others
Self Interest & Social Judgement
We attribute negative events to others’ actions and positive events to our own
Self Concern and Social Behavior
We attempt to maintain a good image and adjust our behavior to match others’
Social Relationships and the Self
Since our actions depend partially on who we’re with, who we’re with affects our self-image
- Self and society is a 2-way street
Self-Schemas
Mental templates for organizing ourselves
Social Comparison
We base our self-image on our comparison to those around us
Charles Cooley’s Looking Glass Self
We reflect what we think other people think of us
- How do I appear
- What do others think of me
- Revise how we think about ourselves
- Can be based on correct or incorrect perceptions
Individualism
A way of seeing oneself apart from those around you - popular in Western cultures
Individualism: The Independent Self
The extent to which we see ourselves as independent from others
Individualism: Social Comparisons
People often compare upwards: they want to move up toward those that have more than them
Collectivism
Looking at oneself as part of a larger group
Collectivism: Interdependent Self
The extent to which we see ourselves as connected to those around us
Collectivism: Social Comparisons
People compare downwards: want to bring others up to their level
Individualism: Self & Culture
More individualistic words are being used worldwide
Self-Knowledge: Planning Fallacy
We tend to underestimate how long it will take us to do something
Self-Knowledge: Affective Forecasting
We are bad at predicting how we will feel
Self-Knowledge: Impact Bias
Overestimating how long we will feel a certain way