chapter 2- interpersonal learning Flashcards
what did John Bowlby discover regarding attachment behavior
we are hardwired for attachment and it is necessary for survival.
what is the idea of the triangle of health as seen by Daniel Siegle
connnection of our mind, brain, and interpersonal relations. this triangle is how we formulate our info to create self-integration adn regulation.
which is deadlier, isolation or smoking and obesity
isolation
what does 2 person therapy emphasize
the client counselor relationshpi
what did Sullivan say our personality is made of
interactions with one another and appraisals/validations from one another.
what is a parataxic distortion according to Sullivan
relationship whereas one person relates to another based on a personification that is from their psyche. (a false impression of another)
how does the parataxic distortion differ from transference in 2 ways
it can be done between any persons/groups. and 2- it not only distorts the relationship, it can distort the relationship due to the needs of the person in question. so it changes alot
what is an schema
intenral working model or world made of the beliefs of a person.
are parataxic/interpersonal distortions (transferences) perpetuated by the self
yes. they are self-generating and unconscious at times.
what is the self fulfilling prophecy
a person says everyone is mean, doesn’t trust them, they can’t get close, so everyone is mean.
they see casuality in relationships as circular, not linear.
how does Sullivan stop distortions?
consensual validation
what is consensual validation
comparing one’s perceptoins of a relationship to another’s perceptions of the same relationship (reality testing)
how is depression treated in group
1- translate the depression into terms of relationships, and then treat the relationship issues (i.e. i am depressed because i lack connectivity)
what was the hardest fundamental point of dying for people to deal with
that we die alone.
what is the corrective emotional experience from Franz Alexander
expose the person to difficult emotions in better situations (i.e. the microcosm of group).
besides insight, what else is needed for corrective emotional experience to work x2
besides insight/intelligence into the situation (educated on the matter), they need to feel the situation and have their reality tested.
what is epistemic trust as said from Peter Fonagy
capacity to trust in what others say and do and engage in the world in a way tha this not hypervigiliant.