chapter 10 - in the beginning Flashcards
where does gropu work begin
in pretherapy
what are the pretherapy tasks x4
group selection and composition, propr setting, and client preparation.
does each individual create their individual microcosm in the group
yes
what are the 5 stages of a gropu
forming, storming, norming, performing, and adjourning
what are the 4 stages of anotehr theory of group work
engagement, differentiation, interpersonal work, and termination.
of the 4 stage model theory of group work, about how many sessions does this take
10 sessions
do more sessions mean slower group development
yes, less gropus means faster group development.
describe engagement stage
members make affiliations and relationships with one another
describe differentiation stage of a group
focus on control, power, status, and competition of the group.
describe the interpersonal work stage
long and produtive working stage that has members being intimate, engaged and show genuine cohesion.
describe termintation stage
end of the sessions. it can have grief, lose, relief, letting go, gratitude, etc.
is gropu development stages based on the preceeding stage
yes. so if there are issues in one stage, they will carry into affecting the next stage.
how does gropu maturity affect communication x7
more empathic, more affective than cognitive, more focused on the here and now, and offer constructive feedback, more self disclosing, less leader centered
what is a sign of group immaturity
advice giving
what is a fundamental question that an effective group therapist should be able to answer in regrards the group’s current stage of development
why is this happening in this way at this point.
why call members before the first session
to remind them of group and alleviate any anxities.
what else can you do on the day of the first meeting to alleviate anxiety
greet members at the door or leave signs for them to have direction to the group room.
how shoud you greet the memmebers
warmly and with excitement
what are 2 basic ground rules you should address on day 1
honesty and confidentiality
the first person to speak is most likley to dominate what part of the group stages
the early stages
when do the norms of the group start being shaped
from the very first day by the therapist and the members.
when should you acknowledge tension in the room
from day one as a point ot normalize it.
what are the 2 main parts of the intial stage (forming)
1- figure out how to accomplish the goal of the group
2- create a niche for themselves and the role they play.
wha tmight those with dismissive attachment style do to those that seek engagement
reject them.
what should a therapist watch for in the beginning session x2
the group as a whole and the individual’s subjective experience.
what kind of connection do most seek
intimate one on one relationshipos as well as a connection to the group as a whole.
if a person is fearful of losing themselves within the group identity, what might they value more so
differentation over a sense of belonging.
how does a therapist create the norming from day one
they are the authority figure and they can establish what is to be tolerated and what isnt.
what is the number one way that a therapist is given powers in group work by its members
they see them as a healer, as a omniscient all caring parent or rescuer. this is irrational and untrue.
what is important during these initial discussions (content or process)
process - members are exploring one another in some way and figuring each other out. it doesn’t matter that it is superficial but it does matter that they are engaging.
what do members seek in one another (differences or similarities)
similarities (universality brings relief)
how is direct advice giving beneficial to the group itself
it provides a vehicle for caring for one another to build upon in group cohesion.
does the group need more structure in the beginning or the end
beginning
what is an important feeling to instill during the beginning sesssions by the therapist x3
hope and safety and trust
why would a silent facilitator be a bad idea in the beginning
we are prone to our own anxities in these situations which is normal, subconscious, primoridial and demonstartes why having a facilitator in the beignning is so crucial. this will happen even with the most robust of members.
what is the 2nd stage of the group
storming
what describes the storming stage
focus on orientation, structurue, and meaning as a means of finding out whom is in control of the situation. (storming the ramparts to be in control).
what kind of comments are most common in the storming stage
negative comments and criticism
what happens to social norms in the storming stage
members feel free to give advice but outsid eof the normal social code. they use more “shoulds.” this is done as a means of focusing on a person’s status and position in the group (whom is the strongest)
when are there more covert struggles for power in the group
when new members come in and make a vie for power and not being aware of the order things before their arrival to the group.
why does hostility develop towards the therapist
members have unrealistic and impossible views of the therapist being challenged.
what decreases the hostility towards the therapist
they represent his humanity as well in time.
what 2 ways should a therpaist never respond to hostility with
defensiveness and especially with hostility in return.
what natural forces cause hostility to the therapist to develop x2
humans have a natural tendency to have the ability to depend on someone, and then seek to destroy that dependence (by destroying the authroity figure).
how does a therapist sidestep the natural tendency for people to seek an authority figure
by not being an authority figure - they don’t give answers, and urge the group to explore and develop it’s own resources.
what else brings about resenment towards the therapist (hint: favoritism)
they learn they won’t become the favorite member/child of the therapist.
why might a person seek to be the favorite member/child of the therapist
it’s an interplay between their own sibling rivalry from their past.
what alleviates a member seeking to be the favorite of the group to the therapist
realizing that each person is equal in the eyes of the therapist.
what is there to say of those that are the most profound during the storming stage regarding their reaction formation
very conflicted in their ideas of dependency and have heavy yearnings for dependency
what is a reaction formation
responding to a repressed need with its contrasting form (i.e. seeking others to depend on, but pushing everyone away that might help).
of those most hostile during hte storming stage, what is there to say about their attachment style
avoidant and dismissive attachment style
what assists clients in working through their issues with dependency, fears of rejection, and unresponsiveness as seen in the storming stage?
experience the comfort of belonging and asking for help.
what must first happen to those that are hostile in the storming stage for them to grow and gain insight into their dependency issues?
they must be rebuked by the group and then see the group as something as capable of giving them what they want (trust, acceptance, belonging, protection)
why might a member protect the therapist x2
1- had unreliable care givers in the past and see you as frail (parentification)
2- see this as a point of building an alliance with you against the other members.
we should be aware of any covert signals we might send to rescuers in these situations
why do we use our first names in session
to create a sense of egalantarianism as our titles denote power/authurity.
what qualities make for the worst of responses from the members x3
1- being ambiguous/engimatic.
2- authoritative but provide no strucutre (rule makers)
3- make unrealistic promises to the group.