Chapter 14 Flashcards
Transitional period for 18-25 year olds
Extended exploration
Identity Moratorium
Search for identity continues
Changes in the job market and economy have contributed to the lengthening of this period
Emerging Adulthood
- Intimacy vs. Isolation
Do I want a partner or do I prefer to be independent and
completely on my own?
Secure identity = finding intimacy
Erikson’s identity crisis
Revisions to one’s life structure
Dream stage (men = career; women = career and marriage)
Mentor helps to realize dream
Settle down (men = 30’s, women = middle adulthood)
Levinson
Do you hear the clock ticking?
Biological clock
Expectations for milestones based on age
Conform = Confident
Deviate = Distress
The social clock
Mate selection
Evolutionary Theory
Men: youthfulness and attractiveness
Women: resources and protection
Social Learning Theory
Gender roles influence mate selection
Romantic Relationships
Importance of intimacy, passion, and commitment changes
Passionate love (lust) Companionate love (commitment)
Triangular Theory of Love
Traditional marriages vs. Egalitarian marriages
Division of household labor
Larger burden on women
Woman’s career path
Living Single
Age at first marriage has increased
Divorce rate has increased
Cohabitation has increased
Well-educated, higher income young adults
Less conventional, less committed, greater likelihood of divorce
What factors are associated with divorce?
Poor communication
Younger age at marriage
Family history of divorce
Poverty
Women’s changing status
Other relationships in early adulthood
Adult friendships
Women = more intimacy than men
Siblings
Resemble friendships
Sisters in particular
Make room for baby
Increase in demands and responsibility
Couples may become more traditional
But shared caregiving is key to happiness and secure attachment
Parenting as a united front
Be clear about child-rearing values
Work as a team = happier, more effective
Some trends for older parents
Planned births
Higher income and more savings
Higher education level and occupation status
Women do less housework (hire out or shared)
More committed to parenting
More satisfied with baby
More sensitive to baby
Older fathers
More affectionate
More cognitively stimulating
More involved
Less rough and tumble play