Chapter 12: Socioemotional development in Early Adulthood Flashcards
What does socioemotional development in adults revolve around
It revolves around adaptively integrating our emotional experiences into enjoyable relationships with others on a daily basis
Which years lay the foundation for an adult’s socioemotional development
Research shows that it’s the first 20 years of life.
Is there a link between romantic relationships and parent relationships
Yes. Although relationships with romantic partners differ from those with parents, they fulfill some of the needs for adults as parents do for children.
eg they might count on Rom.Patn to be a secure base to which they can return and obtain comfort and security during stressful times
What are securely attached infants
= Those who use the caregiver as a secure base from which to explore the environment.
Is there a link between being securely attached to a partner, and your childhood attachment
Some studies show that adults who were securely attached in their romantic relationships were more likely to describe their early relationship with their parents as being securely attached.
What did certain studies find about insecure avoidant attachment at 8 years of age
Linked to a lower level of social initiative and prosocial behavior and a higher level of anxiety and loneliness at 21.
What can cause the links between early attachment styles and later attachment style to we weakened
Stressful and disruptive experiences such as the death of a parent or instability of caregiving
What are the 3 Categories adults’ attachment can be categorized as
- Secure attachment style
- Avoidant attachment style
- Anxious attachment style
How are securely attached adults
- They have positive views of relationships, find it easy to get close to others
- Are not overly concerned with or stress out about their romantic relationship
- Enjoy sexuality in the context of a committed rlt
- Are less likely than others to have one night stands.
How are avoidant (attached) adults
- They are hesitant about getting involved in romantic relationships
- Once they are in a relationship, they tend to distance themselves from their partner.
How are anxious (attachment) adults
- They demand closeness (crave intimacy and connection, often needing reassurance)
- Are less trusting
- More emotional, jealous, and possessive.
How are the relationships of securely attached adults
- More satisfied
- More likely to be characterized by trust, commitment and longevity
Are attachment categories stable in adulthood?
Yes, but adults do have the capacity to change their attachment thinking and behavior.
What are factors other than attachment style that contributes to relationship functioning
- Relationship satisfaction
- Success
What does love refer to
Love refers to a vast and complex territory of human behavior, spanning a range of relationships that includes friendship, romantic love, affectionate love, and consummate love.
In most of these, a recurring theme is INTIMACY
What are the hallmarks of intimacy
Self-disclosure and the sharing of private thoughts
Which developmental stage do early adults enter on their way to establishing stable and successful relationships. According to ERIKSON
The 6th developmental stage:
Intimacy vs Isolation
How did Erikson describe intimacy
Finding oneself while losing oneself in another person, which requires a commitment to another person.
What does development in early adulthood often involve
Balancing intimacy and commitment on one hand, and independence and freedom on another
What are 2 widely recognized types of love
- Romantic love
- Affectionate love
What is romantic love also called
Passionate love, or eros (latin)
What does romantic love have strong components of and when does it predominate
- Has strong components of sexuality and infatuation
- It often predominates in the early part of a love relationship.
Who usually has higher avoidance and lower anxiety in a relationship
Males.
They keep more emotional distance, avoid relying on or getting too close + don’t worry too much about being rejected or abandoned
What is the most important ingredient of romantic love.
Sexual desire
What is resource-acquisition ability and it’s link to online dating
Resource-acquisition ability refers to a person’s perceived capability to secure resources. measured by their level of education and income.
Having a higher education or income is positively linked to the amount of attention received from users. (ps more in men)
What are some critics and issues about online dating
- Many individuals misrepresent their characteristics (age, looks, and occupation)
What do men lie most about on online dating sites vs women
Men lie most about their age, height and income
Women lie most about their weight, physical build and age
How do romantic relationships change in emerging adulthood
- Short-term rltps were supported (preferred, accepted, ..) more as ppl moved into emerging adulthood.
- Long-term : high levels of support, and negative interactions, control and jealousy decreased (than in adolescence)