Chapter 11-interpersonal Conflict Flashcards
Interpersonal conflict
And express struggle between independent artist receipt and get out of her goals, scarce resources, and interference from one another
Reframing
Changing the way you think about an interpersonal situation
Metconflict
Conflict about conflict
Indirect conflict
The expression of conflict through negative behaviors that ignore the underlying disagreement
Passive aggression
Pattern of behaving vengefully while denying that one has aggressive feelings
Demand-withdraw pattern
A pattern behavior in which one party makes demands and the other party makes demands and the other party withdraws form the convo
Disinviting effect
The tendency to say or do things in one environment (such as online) that one would not say or do in most other environments
Power
The ability to manipulate, control, or influence other people or events
Symmetrical relationship
A relationship b/t parties of equal power
Complementary relationship
A relationship b/t parties of unequal power
One-up message
A verbal message through which the speaker attempts to exert dominance or gain control over the listener.
One-down message
A verbal message that reflects acceptance of, or submission to, another person’s power.
One-across message
A verbal message that seeks to neutralize relational control and power.
Reward power
Power that derives from the ability to reward
Coercive power
Power based on ability to punish
Deferent power
Power that derives from one’s attraction to or admiration for another.
Legitimate power
Power based on one’s legitimate status or position.
Expert power
Power that derives from one’s expertise, talent, training, specialized knowledge, or experience
Patriarchy
A social system in which men exercise the majority of the power
Criticism
The expression of complaints about another party
Contemptuous behaviors
The expression of insults and attacks on another’s self-worth
Defensive behaviors
tactics that cast the self as a victim and deny responsibility for one’s own role in a conflict.
Stornewalling
Withdrawing from convo or an interaction
Competing
A strategy for managing conflict in which one’s goal is to win while the other party loses