ch 9 sexuality Flashcards
What shapes sexual attitudes?
Historical, social, religious, political influences
what is the popular view of promiscuity?
sex out of marriage is ok- as long as it is in a comitted relationship
Extradayadic sex is…
sex outside a comitted relationship. gay men are most likely to participate in extradyadic sex
sociosexual orientations are…
collections of beliefs and behaviours that describe our feelings about sex
good genes hypothesis:
woman can profit from DUAL DATING: long term partner to provide security and comfort, and short term partner to provide “desireable dna”
why do we engage in unsafe sex?
underestimating risk faulty decision making pluralistic ignorance inequalities in power intimacy/pleasure
underestimating risk:
illusion of unique invulnerability, think bad things happen to others
-the better looking a partner is, the safer they are presumed to be
faulty decision making:
“heat of the moment” clouds judgement, last minute decisions are not thought out, intoxication
pluralistic ignorance
OVERassume the ammount of people that prefer PLURAL hookups- so we have more sex with more partners exposing us to disease
-do this because other’s perceived judgements on us influences behaviour
inequalities in power
more powerful partner can influence the other to be unsafe
sex is most satisfying when….
it is autonomous (chosing actions), competent (confidence and capability) and relatednes (establishing a connection)