CH. 14 Flashcards

1
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Wholistic Approach

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brother and sister have different ideas

Ex: sun and moon

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I message & Active listening

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parenting

  • businesses use these tactics
  • conflict can be a good thing in bringing people closer together
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3
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I message

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how you feel
-state what you’re objecting too
-gets us out of judgement
Ex: You’re so lazy

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4
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Active listening

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repeat back what you think they said

-ask clarifying questions

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5
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Cross-cultural Perspectives:

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Individualistic and Collectivistic orientations

- US is both

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6
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Individualistic Orientation

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up to you

-pull yourself out of poverty

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7
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Collectivistic Orientation

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gonna take a group or community to make a solution

-Ex: India and Japan

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8
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Naturalistic observation

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no directions or interference

-Mary Ainsworth

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9
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Participant observation

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Robert Cave experiments:

  • purposely causing problems so they can work together as an observer and a participant
  • study peer groups
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10
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Bronfenbrenner’s ecological theory:

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  • about culture
    1. ) Microsystem
    2. ) Mesosystem
    3. ) Exosystem
    4. ) Macrosystem
    5. ) Chronosystem
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Microsystem

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setting in which individuals live

-Ex: family

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Mesosystem

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links between microsystems
Ex: school and family
Ex: onion peeling layer

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13
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Exosystem

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Indirect affects

Ex: Stress at work can ripple out and cause a fight within a family

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14
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Macrosystem

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culture we grow up in

  • emphasizes individual
  • hard work pays off
  • Ex: aggression in NFL
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Chronosystem

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sociohistorical circumstances that change over time

  • Ex: 9/11
  • Ex: Women movemant
  • Ex: Student activist stage
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16
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Adolescence

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stressful time on marriages

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17
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Family as a System:

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homeostasis

  • cohesion
  • clear generational boundaries
  • enmeshment
  • disengagement
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18
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Homeostasis

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achieving balance in change

19
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Cohesion

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degree of closeness
-constantly moving and fluctuating 
-continuum 
-well-being for family in middle
Ex: Parents being parents
-healthy relationship
20
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Enmeshment

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overly involved

  • eating disorders
  • schizophrenia
21
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Disengagement

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lack of parental monitoring

22
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Ecology

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families embedded in culture

23
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John G.

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gridlock / love map

  • Know each other well enough to know when they’re upset
  • smaller things are better
24
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Adult Development trajectories

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timing of entry into cohabitation, marriage, or parenthood

25
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Child Development trajectories

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timing of child care and entry into middle school

26
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Plasticity

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sense of change with new pathways

27
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Cohabitation

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living together in a sexual relationship without being married

28
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Kids

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more likely to open up to parents cause they feel safe due to parental monitoring

29
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Baumrind’s 4 Parenting Styles

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  • Authoritive = setting guidelines without conflict
    1. ) Authoritarian parenting
    2. ) Authoritative parenting
    3. ) Neglectful parenting
    4. ) Indulgent parenting
30
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Authoritative parenting

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optimal style of parent who are warm but have high expectations
-achievement oriented
-emotional warmth
-induction
\+accepting
\+control
31
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Authoritarian parenting

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hostile, dominating kids by yelling and taking away the kids sense of self
-unhappy / aggressive
-power-assertive
\+rejecting
\+control
32
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Indulgent parenting

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permissive parenting
-lack of self control = most important problem
-Laisse Faire = constantly giving in
\+accepting
\+no control
33
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Neglectful parenting

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permissive parenting
-low self-esteem
-abandonment 
\+rejecting
\+no control
34
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In favor of Corporal Punishment

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were likely to remember it being used by their parents

-associated with higher levels of immediate compliance and aggression in children

35
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Parent-adolescent conflict:

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escalates during early adolescence

  • 4-5 million (25%) experience this problem
  • biological changes of puberty
  • cognitive changes = increased idealism and logical reasoning
36
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Acculturation

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based conflicts often result in immigrant families

37
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Parent-emerging adults:

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relationships with parents improve once they leave home

“adult status” = still dependent on parents in some matter

38
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Emerging Adulthood

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“Boomerang Kids”

  • attachment is still important during this stage
  • most kids come back home
  • what they will take along, leave behind, and create
39
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Parents in Emerging Adulthood

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act as “scaffolding” = great respect

-act as “safety nets”

40
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Divorce

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1st year of divorce is the roughest

  • 2-5 years = the road to recovery gets stronger as times goes on
  • internalizing and externalizing disorders = can both occur
41
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Internalizing disorder

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might show up as depression

  • women
  • not able to express feelings
42
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Externalizing disorder

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problems with anger
-anxiety
-lash out in response to stress
Ex: hitting kids at school
-boys are higher
-juvenile deliquency
43
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Mediators

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rituals = help nuture well being in a stressful time

- Ex: having family meals at the same time

44
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Adolescent adjustment:

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improved when divorced parents have a harmonious relationship and use authoritative parenting