CH. 10 Flashcards
Emotional Development
50 years ago, a soft science
currently, a soft skill
Goal Disengagement
switch gears really fast
EX:olympic potential swimmer = always noticed that there are others better than he is
pushed himself
ended up getting leukemia
battled back and won gold the stopped swimming
Paradox
when you give up an unrealistic goal and it frees you to make progress
Grounded hope
realistic hope / based in reality
Concept of “Good Enough”
EX: I had a pimple today but i still came to class
Helicopter parent
prevent son or daughter from gaining resilience
Ex: That ladies daughter got in the program, so why isn’t mine?
complaining
Individuation
self- other differentiation enables you to go to boss and ask for raises because you deserve it sticking up for someone saying no to a pressure situation emotions
Goodness of Fit
temperament
That baby was such an angel compared to a bad baby
Internal working model
related to attachment
unconscious
set of expectations of the caregiver
carries all the way up through infancy
Resilience
learned, can cope and adjust very well despite a lot of hardship
Self-efficacy
you have a sense of personal mastery Ex: mantra you can do hard things faith, meaningful, purpose intelligence motivation close connections
Operational definition
gotta know how to measure it 1.) Normal development 2.) Threats EX: poverty divorce war & terrorism natural disasters
The richer your experiences
the broader it gets
Developmental psycopathology
childhood depression
Developmental trajectory
pathway
Developmental cascade
ripples
competence begets competence
difficult temperament
Continuity
what makes you and i tell story from childhood to adulthood
Discontinuity
abrupt change where the person isn’t coping well but grow and become much better coping very well
development is very dymanic
narative idenitity = tell our own stories
not until adolescence
narative identity
tell our own stories
not until adolescence
Grit
persistence and passion
Ex: that kid showed up every single practice
Emotion-coaching approach
kids get a chance to sort through their feelings rather than dismiss them