Belief: she must have me at the forefront of her mind at all times

Question 1

There is no natural law to say that if she does things without thinking of me first, that I will cease to be. It does not follow that my desire for her to do this leads to my self-destruction. It does not help me as it makes me feel more stressed and unhappy.

Answer 1

I find it difficult if she does things without considering me first, but I can and do cope.

Question 2

There is no natural law forcing her mind to think of me constantly. Just because I want her to consider me before doing anything this does not mean she must. It does not help me to think this way because it angers me when she doesn’t follow this unwritten rule.

Answer 2

I’d prefer it if she considered me first before doing anything but that does not mean that she must.