Attraction, liking, loving and sexuality Flashcards
difficulty studying this topic
Non experimental designs, most research in NA
From attraction to liking you need
individual characteristics
1: Physical attractiveness
2: similairity
3: interaction
From liking to becoming friends you need
Interaction
1: exchange relationship: offer reward, recieve benefit.
2; self disclosure. It increases liking, and signals trust.
Forming close relationships you need
Interdependence
cognitive interdep: WE. partner becomes part of the self.
2: behavioural interdependance:
Need to co:ordinate, exchange relationship (communal)
3: Affective interdependance.
Intemacy, commitment, passion
Hazan & Shaver
Attachment Styles
Attachment styles
Hazan and Shaver: belief about self and others influence ORIENTATION towards relationships.
1: Secure
2: Dismissing
3: Preoccupied
4: Fearful
Threats to relationships
Social norms, comparison between partners, potential rivals. constructive or destrucive accomodation.