Attachment and Social Relationships (Ch 14) Flashcards

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Attachment theory was formulated by …

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British psychiatrist John Bowlby

- elaborated by American developmental psychologist Mary Ainsworth

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Bowlby defined attachment:

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as a strong affectional tie that binds a person to an intimate companion

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How is attachment a behavioral system?

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humans regulate their emotional distress when under threat and achieve security by seeking proximity to another person

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ethological concept of imprinting

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  • incorporated into attachment theory
  • An innate form of learning in which the young will follow and become attached to a moving object (usually the mother) during a critical period early in life
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Imprinting according to recent research

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  • The “critical” period is more like a “sensitive” period
  • Imprinting can be reversed
  • Imprinting does not happen without the right interplay of biological and environmental factors
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What hormone promotes attachment?

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oxytocin

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Attachment is a product of…

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nature and nurture interacting over time

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Bonding

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a more biologically-based process in which parent and infant form a connection in the first hours after birth when a mother is likely to be exhilarated and her newborn highly alert

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Bowlby proposed that through their interactions with caregivers, infants construct expectations about relationships in the form of …

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internal working models

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internal working models

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Cognitive representations of themselves and other people that guide the processing of social information and behavior in relationships

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Securely attached infants who have received responsive care will form internal working models suggesting that they are …

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are lovable and that other people can be trusted to care for them

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Insecurely attached infants subjected to insensitive, neglectful, or abusive care may conclude that they are…

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difficult to love, that other people are unreliable, or both

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social referencing

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  • approximately 1year
  • monitor their companions’ emotional reactions in ambiguous situations
  • and use this information to decide how they should feel and behave
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emotional regulation

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The processes involved in initiating, maintaining, and altering emotional responses
- capacity develops over time

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Very young infants are able to reduce their negative arousal by …

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turning from unpleasant stimuli or by sucking vigorously on a pacifier

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end of the first year, infants can also regulate their emotions by …

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rocking themselves, moving away from upsetting events, or actively seeking attachment figures who will calm them

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as children gain the capacity for symbolic thought and language…

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they become able to regulate their distress symbolically (for example, by repeating “Mommy coming soon”)

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By 18 to 24 months, toddlers cope by…

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  • trying to control the actions of people and objects (for example, by pushing the offending person or object away)
  • playing with toys and otherwise distracting themselves
  • They have been observed knitting their brows or compressing their lips in an attempt to suppress their anger or sadness
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synchronized routines

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  • Caregivers and infants develop synchronized routines in which they take turns responding to each other
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Parent-infant synchrony contributes to a …

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secure attachment relationship and to later self-regulation and empathy

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The infant forms an attachment to the caregiver in the following phases:

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  1. Undiscriminating social responsiveness (birth to 2 or 3 months)
  2. Discriminating social responsiveness (2 or 3 months to 6 or 7 months)
  3. Active proximity seeking or true attachment (6 or 7 months to about 3 years
  4. Goal-corrected partnership (3 years and older)
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Undiscriminating social responsiveness (birth to 2 or 3 months)

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Infants respond to voices, faces, and other stimuli, especially humans
They do not yet show a clear preference for any one person

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Discriminating social responsiveness (2 or 3 months to 6 or 7 months)

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Infants begin to express preferences for familiar companions, but they are still friendly toward strangers

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Active proximity seeking or true attachment (6 or 7 months to about 3 years)

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Infants form their first clear attachments, most often to their mothers

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Goal-corrected partnership (3 years and older)

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Children adjust their behavior in order to maintain proximity to the attachment figure

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Separation anxiety

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Once attached to a parent -

  • Baby becomes fretful or wary when parent leaves
  • Peaks b/w 14-18 mos
  • Gradually becomes less frequent/intense
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Stranger anxiety

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Once attached to a parent - 
Baby becomes fretful and way when approached by a stranger 
- Common b/w 8-10 mos
- Cont thru first year
- Declines in intensity over 2nd year
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Quality of attachment - 4 types

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  1. Secure
  2. Resistant
  3. Avoidant
  4. Disorganized-disoriented
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Secure attachment

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Securely attached infants have parents who are sensitive and responsive to their needs and emotional signals

  • 60-65% of babies
  • actively explores the room when alone with his mother because she serves as a secure base
  • upset by separation but greets his mother warmly and is comforted by her presence when she returns
  • When his mother is present, the securely attached child is outgoing with a stranger
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Resistant attachment (also called anxious/ambivalent attachment)

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Often have parents who are inconsistent in caregiving

  • may react enthusiastically or indifferently and are frequently unresponsive
  • mothers who are depressed
  • 10 percent
  • does not venture off to play even when his mother is present, probably because she is not a secure base for exploration
  • becomes distressed when his mother departs - perhaps because he is uncertain whether she will return
  • When his mother returns - infant = ambivalent
  • wary of strangers, even when their mothers are present
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Avoidant attachment

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Up to 15% of 1-year-olds

  • parents who tend to provide either too little or too much stimulation
  • They seem uninterested in exploring, show little apparent distress when separated from their mothers
  • avoid contact or seem indifferent when their mothers return
  • not particularly wary of strangers but sometimes avoid or ignore them, much as they avoid or ignore their mothers
  • distanced themselves from their parents
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Disorganized

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  • Up to 15% of infants (more in high-risk families)
  • 80% of infants who have been physically abused or maltreated
  • mothers - severely depressed or abuse alcohol and drugs
  • associated with later emotional problems
  • reunited with their mothers after a separation - they may act dazed and freeze or lie immobilized on the floor
  • OR they may seek contact but then abruptly move away as their mothers approach them, only to seek contact again
  • appear to have been unable to devise a consistent strategy for regulating negative emotions such as separation anxiety
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disinhibited attachment

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Involves indiscriminate friendliness, lack of appropriate wariness of strangers, and difficulty participating in real, reciprocal social interactions
- REACTIVE ATTACHMENT

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Infants who experienced routine care by someone other than their mothers were …

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NOT much different than infants cared for almost exclusively by their mothers in the various developmental outcomes studied

35
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Infants who received alternative forms of care (even 20+ hours per week) were …

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NO less securely attached to their mothers overall than infants who were tended by their mothers

36
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Play

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generally is defined as activities that do not have an obvious or direct purpose or use

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Four types of play

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  1. Locomotor play (games of tag or ball)
  2. Object play (stacking blocks, making crafts)
  3. Social play (mutual imitation or playing board games)
  4. Pretend play (enacting roles)
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the play years

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The years from age 2 to age 5

39
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Between infancy and age 5, play undergoes two changes

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  1. More social

2. More imaginative

40
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Parten developed a classification system for the play of preschool children from the least to the most social

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  • Unoccupied play
  • Solitary play
  • Onlooker play
  • Parallel play
  • Associative play
  • Cooperative play
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Unoccupied play

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– children stand idly, look around, or engage in apparently aimless activities such as pacing

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Solitary play

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children play alone, typically with objects, and appear to be highly involved in what they are doing

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Onlooker play

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– children watch others play, take an active interest, perhaps talk with the players, but do not directly participate

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Parallel play

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– children play next to one another, do much the same thing, but they interact little (for example, two girls might sit near each other in the sandbox but do not talk)

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Associative play

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– children interact by swapping materials, conversing, or following each other’s lead, but they are not united by the same goal (for example, the two girls may share sandbox toys and comment on each other’s sand structures)

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Cooperative play

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  • children join forces to achieve a common goal; they act as a pair or group, dividing their labor and coordinating their activities in a meaningful way (for example, the two girls collaborate to make a sand castle)
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The first pretend play occurs around age

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one

48
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Between the ages of 2 and 5, pretend play

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increases in frequency and in sophistication

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social pretend play

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Play in which children cooperate with caregivers or playmates to enact dramas

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Researchers study peer-group acceptance through

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sociometric techniques

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sociometric techniques

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Methods for determining who is liked and who is disliked in a group

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Rejected children may be characterized by the following..

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High levels of aggression

Tendency to social isolation, submissiveness, over-sensitivity to teasing, seen as “easy to push around”

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Neglected children may be characterized as

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Having reasonably good social skills
Nonaggressive
Tendency to be shy, withdrawn, and unassertive

54
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Controversial children often show

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good social skills and leadership qualities, like popular children, but they are also viewed as aggressive bullies, like many rejected children

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cliques

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small friendship groups, and have little to do with the other sex

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Crowd

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  • collection of several heterosexual cliques
  • central to arranging organized social activities, such as parties, and provides opportunities to get to know members of the other sex as friends and as potential romantic partners
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According to Brown (1999), adolescent relationships evolve through four phases:

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  1. Initiation phase
  2. Status phase
  3. Affection phase
  4. Bonding phase
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Initiation phase

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  • in early adolescence, the focus is on the self

To see oneself as a person capable of relating to members of the other sex in a romantic way

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Status phase

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– in mid-adolescence, having a romantic relationship with the “right kind” of partner is important for the status it brings in the larger peer group

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Affection phase

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– in late adolescence, the focus is on the relationship

Romantic relationships become more personal, caring relationships

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Bonding phase

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– in the transition to early adulthood, the emotional intimacy achieved in the affection phase is connected to a long-term commitment to create a lasting attachment bond

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social convoy

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a social network and support system that accompanies us during our life

  • Provides social support in the form of aid, affection, and affirmation
  • In the beginning, our convoy consists of our parents
  • The convoy expands over the years as others (family, partners, colleagues) join it but then typically shrinks in later life
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According to Carstensen (1992), the shrinking social convoy of adulthood is explained by socioemotional selectivity theory

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  • A choice older adults make to better meet their emotional needs once they perceive the time left to them as short
  • The perception that one has little time left to live prompts older adults to put less emphasis on the goal of acquiring knowledge for future use and more emphasis on the goal of fulfilling current emotional needs
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Romantic relationships and Adults - Filter theories

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suggest that mate selection is a process in which we progress through a series of filters leading us from all possible partners to one partner in particular

65
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According to researchers, the greatest influence on mate selection is …

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homogamy, or similarity

66
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Types of love

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  1. Intimacy
  2. Passion
  3. Commitment
67
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Consummate love

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High levels of
Passion
Intimacy
Decision/Commitment

68
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Companionate love

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High intimacy and commitment

Not much passion

69
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Four attachment styles in adult relationships

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  1. Secure
  2. Preoccupied
  3. Dismissing
  4. Fearful
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Secure attachment (adult relationship)

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View of self: Positive
View of other: Positive

  • Secure attachment hx
  • Healthy balance of attachment and autonomy
  • Freedom to explore
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Preoccupied attachment (adult relationship)

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View of self: Negative
View of others; Positive

  • Resistant attachment hx
  • Desperate for love to feel worthy as a person
  • Worry of abandonment
  • Express anger and danger openly
    AKA borderline
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Dismissing attachment (adult relationship)

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View of self: Positive
View of others: Negative

  • Avoidant attachment hx
  • Shut out emotions
  • Defend against hurt by avoiding intimacy, dismisses the importance of relationships
  • “Compulsively self-reliant”
    AKA Avoidant PD
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Fearful attachment (adult relationship)

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View of self: Negative
View of others: Negative

  • Disorg/Disoriented attachment hx
  • Need relationships but doubt own self-worth and fear intimacy
  • Lack a coherent strategy for meeting attachment needs
74
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Attachment styles can also be described in terms of two dimensions

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Anxiety

Avoidance

75
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Anxiety

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Dimension of attachment styles

– extent of concern about the availability and responsiveness of partners

76
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Avoidance

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Dimension of attachment styles

– extent of discomfort being intimate with and depending on a partner