Adult attachment in relationships Flashcards
what are the 4 main attachment functions/features?
secure base, safe haven, proximity maintenance, separation anxiety
what are the 3 parts of adult pair bond?
attachment, caregiving, sexuality
define internal working models
mental representations/schemas of relationships that guide expectations and behaviour
what is a self internal working model?
am i worthy of love and affection?
what is an other internal working model?
will my caregiver be available and reliable?
what dictates adult relationship style?
nature of experiences with primary caregivers + am i worthy of love and affection + will my caregiver be available and reliable?
how stable are internal working models?
persist over time and applied to new people, but open to revision in light of significant experiences
a negative other-model leads to what level of avoidance?
high
a positive other-model leads to what level of avoidance?
low
describe a high avoidance level
rejecting/neglectful care. no genetic component. suppresses emotions, self-reliance, defensive discomfort with intimacy
a negative self-model leads to what level of anxiety?
high
a positive self-model leads to what level of anxiety?
low
describe a high anxiety level
inconsistent/overprotective care. 40% heritable. clingy, fear abandonment, difficulty regulating emotions
negative self-model and negative other-model lead to what kind of attachment?
fearful avodiant
negative self-model and positive other model lead to what kind of attachment?
preoccupied
positive other-model and positive self-model lead what kind fo attachment?
secure
positive self-model and negative other-model lead to what kind of attachment?
dismissing avoidant