4: Parenting Flashcards
The parenting style that values obedience & respect the most. Pushing vs resistance.
Authoritarian
Task concerned with the raising of children.
Parenting
When both external force (punishment) & development of internal sense of right & wrong are used:
Discipline
When the parent is demanding, punishing, and has severe restrictions and constant direction & supervision.
Authoritarian
What are the possible child’s response to the authoritarian parenting style?
- Submission - obedience
- Active rebellion - overt defiance & verbal refusal
- Passive resistance - forgetting & covert, devious rebellion
Aggressiveness, moodiness, irritability, low self esteem are clinical correlations to a child raised by what parenting style?
Authoritarian
An authoritarian’s child may develop what attitude in the future?
Bossy or follower
Compulsive or refusal to comply
Procrastinator, resistant to schedule
Sex & marriage are duties
Describe a child of an indifferent (detached) parent.
Demanding
Less compliant
Poor peer relationship
A child is passive, bored & discontented in the midst of indulgence.
Permissive parenting
True or false: in permissive parenting, the child is the boss.
TRUE
When the child sees the adult as probider of pleasure & comfort, loses initiative & spontaneity, and has tantrums.
Permissive
What are the clinical correlation in children of permissive parenting style?
Impulsivity
Behavioral problems
The child’s attitude in the future would be to hate work, no career decisions, attaches to partner who can indulge, and has passive expectation of getting from others.
Permissive
A combination of parental warmth & acceptance or involvement w/ parental control.
Authoritative/democratic
Describe the discipline in a democratic parenting style.
Consistency
Firmness
Warmth
Reinforcement of appropriate responses
A child who is independent, has strong social skills and is confident is raised by what parenting style?
Authoritative/democratic
The most effective parenting would involve what:
Consistency
Reward for good behavior
Punishment for undesirable behavior
For Filipinos, what is the natural outcome of marriage?
Parenthood
Describe a Filipino family.
Child-centered
True or false: In the rural areas, children provide help as early as 5 years old.
TRUE
The investment for social mobility:
Good education -> good jobs -> raise the socio-economic standing of the family
True or false: Parenthood is not necessarily a furnishing incentive for success.
FALSE
For Filipinos, how is masculinity measured?
By the number of children produced
True or false: To bear a child is the fulfillment of womanhood. (Filipino culture)
TRUE
The process in which an individual acquires & internalizes the norm.
Socialization
In which personality is developed.
Socialization
What are the agents of socialization?
Family
School
Church
Other groups individual is exposed to
Considered as the closest and most influential social group in a child’s life:
Family
Reasons for parents’ dedication to child rearing:
Genuine love & concern for child’s welfare
Community expectation
Legal prescription
Who assumes the bulk of child care responsibilty?
Mother
What are the 4 types of fatherhood?
Procreator
Dilettante
Determinative
Generative
Refers to the emotional tone of involvement with children:
Affective dimension
The degree of involvement with children:
Activity dimension
Type of father that equates fatherhood primarily w/ raising children:
Procreator father
The father who is often away from home but maintains warm relationship with children.
Dilettante father
Obsessed with directing his children’s lives.
Determinative father
Spend much time with children & enjoys being with them that fatherhood becomes an opportunity for own growth and fulfillment.
Generative father
At what type do the Filipino father tend to fall in?
Procreator and dilettante
If you are a young father, what is the primary responsibilty to focus on?
Nurturance
The older fathers consider _______ their primary duty.
Provider role