4: Parenting Flashcards

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The parenting style that values obedience & respect the most. Pushing vs resistance.

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Authoritarian

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Task concerned with the raising of children.

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Parenting

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2
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When both external force (punishment) & development of internal sense of right & wrong are used:

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Discipline

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When the parent is demanding, punishing, and has severe restrictions and constant direction & supervision.

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Authoritarian

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What are the possible child’s response to the authoritarian parenting style?

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  1. Submission - obedience
  2. Active rebellion - overt defiance & verbal refusal
  3. Passive resistance - forgetting & covert, devious rebellion
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Aggressiveness, moodiness, irritability, low self esteem are clinical correlations to a child raised by what parenting style?

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Authoritarian

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An authoritarian’s child may develop what attitude in the future?

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Bossy or follower
Compulsive or refusal to comply
Procrastinator, resistant to schedule
Sex & marriage are duties

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7
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Describe a child of an indifferent (detached) parent.

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Demanding
Less compliant
Poor peer relationship

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A child is passive, bored & discontented in the midst of indulgence.

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Permissive parenting

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9
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True or false: in permissive parenting, the child is the boss.

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TRUE

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When the child sees the adult as probider of pleasure & comfort, loses initiative & spontaneity, and has tantrums.

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Permissive

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11
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What are the clinical correlation in children of permissive parenting style?

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Impulsivity

Behavioral problems

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The child’s attitude in the future would be to hate work, no career decisions, attaches to partner who can indulge, and has passive expectation of getting from others.

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Permissive

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13
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A combination of parental warmth & acceptance or involvement w/ parental control.

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Authoritative/democratic

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14
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Describe the discipline in a democratic parenting style.

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Consistency
Firmness
Warmth
Reinforcement of appropriate responses

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15
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A child who is independent, has strong social skills and is confident is raised by what parenting style?

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Authoritative/democratic

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16
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The most effective parenting would involve what:

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Consistency
Reward for good behavior
Punishment for undesirable behavior

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17
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For Filipinos, what is the natural outcome of marriage?

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Parenthood

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18
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Describe a Filipino family.

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Child-centered

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19
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True or false: In the rural areas, children provide help as early as 5 years old.

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TRUE

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20
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The investment for social mobility:

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Good education -> good jobs -> raise the socio-economic standing of the family

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21
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True or false: Parenthood is not necessarily a furnishing incentive for success.

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FALSE

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22
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For Filipinos, how is masculinity measured?

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By the number of children produced

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23
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True or false: To bear a child is the fulfillment of womanhood. (Filipino culture)

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TRUE

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24
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The process in which an individual acquires & internalizes the norm.

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Socialization

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25
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In which personality is developed.

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Socialization

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26
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What are the agents of socialization?

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Family
School
Church
Other groups individual is exposed to

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27
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Considered as the closest and most influential social group in a child’s life:

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Family

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28
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Reasons for parents’ dedication to child rearing:

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Genuine love & concern for child’s welfare
Community expectation
Legal prescription

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29
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Who assumes the bulk of child care responsibilty?

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Mother

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30
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What are the 4 types of fatherhood?

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Procreator
Dilettante
Determinative
Generative

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31
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Refers to the emotional tone of involvement with children:

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Affective dimension

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32
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The degree of involvement with children:

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Activity dimension

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33
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Type of father that equates fatherhood primarily w/ raising children:

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Procreator father

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34
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The father who is often away from home but maintains warm relationship with children.

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Dilettante father

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35
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Obsessed with directing his children’s lives.

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Determinative father

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36
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Spend much time with children & enjoys being with them that fatherhood becomes an opportunity for own growth and fulfillment.

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Generative father

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37
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At what type do the Filipino father tend to fall in?

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Procreator and dilettante

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38
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If you are a young father, what is the primary responsibilty to focus on?

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Nurturance

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39
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The older fathers consider _______ their primary duty.

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Provider role

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40
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The father’s role is to be:

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Authority figure & disciplinarian

41
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Receives the most attention & affection in the household.

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Infant

42
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Too much crying may give the baby:

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Gas or colic

43
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True or false: In child rearing, techniques should be static.

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FALSE (it should change as society changes)

44
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What is a child’s major role?

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To be a diligent student

45
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Encourages good behavior through praising, granting privileges and rewards.

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Positive technique

46
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Examples of negative techniques:

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Scolding, spanking
Depriving the child of what he wants
Isolation
Instilling fear

47
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What is the most common and considered as most effective method for negative technique?

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Corporal punishment (scolding, spanking)

48
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Factors affecting child rearing behavior:

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Site
Birth order
Gender
Age
Subculture
49
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Factor that is utilized when you are strict if a place is hazardous to health.

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Site

50
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Who bears the greatest demand and expectations but receives special attention & privilege as parental surrogate?

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Eldest

51
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Who are less subjected to corporal punishment?

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Adolescents

52
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Filipino child rights:

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To be born (w/ name&nationality)
To be free (w/ caring family)
Have good educ
Develop potentials
Have food,shelter,healthy body
To play
To be protected
To live in peaceful community
To be defended and assisted by gov
Express own views
53
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Give the types of solo-parent families.

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Widow/widower & his/her children
Single man & adopted children
Separated parent & children
Unwed woman & children
Mistress & her children by a married man
54
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More than 2M of Filipinos. Thus comprising the bulk of single parent families.

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Widow or widower

55
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True or false: Females have longer life expectancy than males.

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TRUE

56
Q

What do homosexuals who have achieved high socio-economic status commonly do?

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Adopt a child

57
Q

A comprehensive package of benefits such as tax breaks, housing benefits, health & educ insurance.

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Solo parents welfare act

58
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The big advantage of windows:

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Favorable attitude of family, friends & community

59
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Source of security of widows:

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Emotional support

60
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Left alone in the task of bringing up their children w/o adequate financial or emotional support:

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Divorced or separated

61
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__ out of 10 Filipino marriages are intact.

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9

62
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Reasons for marital discord:

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Infidelity or irresponsibility
Incompatibility
In-law problems

63
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Number of confirmed wives to be unfaithful.

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8-10 out of 100

64
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Children in what period are more affected after separation?

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latency period

65
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Permits spouses to live separately but the marital bobds are severed so neither spouses may remarry.

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Legal separation

66
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Voids the marriage & considers it not to have taken place at all.

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Annulment

67
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Resorted to by some upper class individuals who would like to formalize an existing extramarital relationship

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Divorce abroad

68
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If one of the parties is a foreigner, who had validly obtained a divorce abroad, enabling him or her to remarry, will the Filipino spouse be able to remarry under Phil law?

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YES

69
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Resorted by the bulk of troubled couples in the Philippines.

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Abandonment/desertion

70
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Child who is abandoned may:

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Express desire to be exact opposite of absent parent
May idealize absent parent
Develop poor self-esteem
Difficulty expressing emotions

71
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The dramatic and highly emotional responses are present in this phase of separation:

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First, acute phase

72
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When the parents begin to disengage from each other’s lives & move into new relationships

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Transitional phase

73
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Establishment of a relatively stable single or remarried household

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Third phase of separation

74
Q
Give the ages of the ffg:
Preschool
Early latency
Later latency
Adolescent
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Preschool: ages 3-5
Early latency: ages 5-8
Later latency: ages 8&1/2-12
Adolescent: ages 12-18

75
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They are likely to regress following one parent’s departire from home.

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Preschool

76
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Usually the most recent developmental achievement upon departure of a parent.

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Regression

77
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Sleep disturbances are common & an intense yearning for the departed parent.

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Preschool

78
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They grieve openly for the departed parent and have terrifying fantasy of replacement.

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Early latency children (5-8)

79
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Fierce anger at one or both parents, they see one as good and one as bad qnd they grieve over loss of their intact world.

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Later latency

80
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There is acute depression accompanied by suicidal preoccupation and direct violent attacks on custodial parents.

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Adolescents

81
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They identify with one parent and do battle against the other but also capable of considerable compassion for their parents’ weaknesses.

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Adolescents

82
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True or false: Marital turmoil has greater impact on girls than boys.

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FALSE (greater on boys)

83
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Reflect the quality of life & parent-child relationships w/in postseparation or remarried.

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Ongoing effects

84
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Reflects the concerns associated w/ the possibility of repeating failure of relationship bet man & woman.

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Delayed effects

85
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The need for the father increases in both boys & girls.

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Adolescence

86
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Represent a major addition to the expectable tasks of childhood & adolescence.

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Psychological tasks

87
Q

The task for acknowledging the reality of the marital rupture is ranked:

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1st

88
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These need to be addressed immediately at the time of separation. Should optimally be resolved within the 1st year.

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Tasks 1 & 2

89
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Disengaging for parental conflict & distress & resuming customary pursuits.

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Task 2

90
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What is task 3 in the psychological tasks?

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The resolution of losses.

91
Q

Resolving anger and self-blame is what psycholigical task?

A

Task 4

92
Q

What tasks will be worked & reworked by the child over many years?

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Tasks 3, 4, 5

93
Q

What is psychological task 5?

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Accepting the permanence of the separation

94
Q

The salient tasks at adolescence.

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Tasks 3 4 5 6

95
Q

Achieving realistic hope regarding relationships is task __.

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Task 6

96
Q

The problems related to absence of father:

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Problems related to gender identity, discipline, academic perfornance in school and health risk behavior
It is the root of many social ills

97
Q

Follow up children who were assessed when they were 6 & 7 yrs old and did not show effect on their school readiness.

A

Henry Ricciuti

98
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Positive effects of single parenting:

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Developing strong bonds
Experiencing community
Shared responsibilities
Handling conflict & disappointment
Seeing real life, balanced priorities
99
Q

True or false: Single parenting is neither positive or negative.

A

TRUE (it only becomes negative if parent abandons his responsibility)