2nd week Flashcards

1
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is the period in a couple’s relationship which precedes their engugement and marriage.
• a test of compatibility between the two persons
> is an opportunity to know the background of each other, including the family where each one belongs

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COURTSHIP

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In the courting stage, it is traditionally the man who has to prove his true intentions to the woman.
• He has to bring _____ or _____ for the parents and something special for the woman, such as ______

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pasalubong, gifts

flowers or gifts.

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the man also has to do the uct of __________
• He will also serenade the woman during the night, sometimes with the aid of his friends as backup singers or supporters

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paninilbihan or servitude.

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4
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serenading (harana)
> “to be in front of the woman’s house”

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TAPAT

llocos Region

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5
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Serenading with Tagalog love songs accompanied by a guitar
> Doing household chores
> Pay respect to the woman’s parents by saying “Mano po.”

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Batangas
GESTURES & ACTIONS

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Way of serenading
> Love letters (sent through a trusted friend or relative of the woman)
• Presents
• Love potions

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Cebu
BALAK

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7
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Send a knife or a spear as a gift to the home of the courted woman for inspection.
• Accepting the weapon is equivalent to accepting the man’s romantic intention and advances.

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Bagobos of Mindanao

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8
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A suitor can court through the use of cellphones, the internet, and social media.
> This courtship practice is alarming.
• You should be careful and responsible. for everything you post in social media.

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Courtship Practices at the Age of Technology

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Importance of Courtship?

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It gives a person time to know better the character and background of someone being considered as one’s future lifetime partner.
> It gives time to understand one another and determine if you can get-along with minimal conflicts.

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Importance of Courtship?

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reveals one’s interests, likes and dislikes, limitations, and aspirations in life.
> It allows couples to decide whether they are ready to be committed

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Importance of Courtship?

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> It develops security and establishes respect for each other.
It develops understanding and acceptance.
It allows couples to determine and focus on what to expect in marriage

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12
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> is an act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity, together as a couple.
• the couple can now be seen in public together, but still with some companions or a chaperone.

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DATING

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Types of Dating?

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> Standard Date -
Double Date -
Group Date -

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14
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involves two people

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Standard Date

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15
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two couples go on a date at the same time and place

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Double Date

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16
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where any number of couples can enjoy a date

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Group Date -

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17
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Importance of Dating?

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> Strengthen the relationship
Spend quality time with each other
Observe the other person’s character
Know one unother better

18
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Risk of Dating

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> Date rape
Use of illegal drugs
Early and unwanted pregnancy

19
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Dating Guidelines?

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> Inform your parents about the background information of the person whom you are going to have a date.
Arrange for transportation
• Tell your parents about your dating plans:
• Follow the curfew set by your parents or by your date’s parents.
• Establish a code of conduct that both you and your date will follow.

20
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This is a way for the man to seek the blessing and permission of the parents of the woman and to show that he is now ready to get married and start a family

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Pamanhikan

21
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Before, dowry was given by the male to the female’s parents
When both parties already come to an agreement, an engagement ring is given and the couple is known as engaged to be married

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Pamanhilan

22
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is a ceremony that unites the couple as one.
> It has the blessings of families of both the bride and the groom, and most especially, of God.

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Marriage

23
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provides intimacy und companionship.
> It serves as a framework in building a family.

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Marriage

24
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Factors to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner

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Good character
> God-fearing
> Responsible and honest
> Hardworking and industrious
> Respectful and compassionate

25
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Factors to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner

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Maturity
> Handles relationship responsibly
• Makes wise and well-thought-out decisions

26
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Factors to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner

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Fidelity
> Makes the relationship lasting
> Considers the relationship sacred
> Sincere and true to promises made to one’s partner

27
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Factors to Consider in Choosing a lifetime Partner

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Commitment
• Makes peaceful and lasting relationship
• Dedicated in fulfilling responsibilities

28
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Factors to Consider in Choosing a lifetime Partner

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Love
• Strengthens the relationship with the partner
> Understands one’s partner
> Endures till death

29
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Factors to Consider in Choosing a lifetime Partner

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Economic Readiness
• Aims for a better future of the family
> Able to provide for the needs of the family
Maintains stable job or business that can support a family

30
Q

(Philippine Muslim Marriages
Marriage Ceremony)

This is performed by un officiant, typically an Imam or a respected elder, who reads the marriage vows and ensures the contract is executed according to Islamic law.

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Nikah

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(Philippine Muslim Marriages
Marriage Ceremony)

Two adult Mustim witnesses are required for the nikah. Their role is to validate the marriage and ensure that the process is conducted correctly

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  1. Witnesses
32
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(Philippine Muslim Marriages
Marriage Ceremony)

The officiant delivers a sermon that includes advice on marriage and family life, drawing from Islamic teachings.

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  1. Khutbah
33
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(Philippine Catholic Marriages)

The ceremony usually begins with a procession, where the bridal party walks down the aisle, followed by the bride, often accompanied by her father or a close family member.

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  1. Procession
34
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(Philippine Catholic Marriages)

The ceremony includes readings from the Bible, chosen by the couple.
• The priest delivers a homily or sermon, reflecting on the readings and offering guidance on marriage

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Liturgy of the Word

35
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Philippine Catholic Marriages

The bride und groom exchange vows in front of the congregation and the priest.

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  1. Exchange of vows
36
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Philippine Catholic Marriages

The priest blesses the wedding rings, which the couple then exchanges.

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  1. Exchange of Rings
37
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The bride and groom may choose to wear traditional Chinese wedding attire, such as a red gipao (cheongsam) for the bride and a changshan or suit for the groom.

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Chinese Marriages
Marriage Ceremony
1. Wedding Attire

38
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Door Games: Upon arrival at the bride’s home, the groom and his entourage may have to pass a series of playful “door games” or challenges set by the bridesmaids.

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Chinese Marriages
Marriage Ceremony
2. Groom’s Arrival

39
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> Serving Tea: The tea ceremony is a significant ritual during the wedding.

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Chinese Marriages
Marriage Ceremony
3. Tea Ceremony

40
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The actual wedding ceremony may take place at the bride’s or groom’s home or at a wedding venue. It often includes rituals like the exchange of vows and rings, and sometimes a traditional tea ceremony.

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Chinese Marriages
Marriage Ceremony
4. Wedding Rituals

41
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Chinese Marriages
Marriage Ceremony
5. Wedding Procession:

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The groom’s procession to the bride’s home or wedding venue is often a festive event, with
decorations, music, und sometimes a lion dance to ward off evil spirits.

42
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Chinese Marriages
Marriage Ceremony
5. Wedding Procession:

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The groom’s procession to the bride’s home or wedding venue is often a festive event, with
decorations, music, und sometimes a lion dance to ward off evil spirits.