Week 9-12 Flashcards
Is a feeling of affection and respect that we typically have four our friends
Liking
Is a vastly deeper and more intense emotional experience and consists of three components, intimacy, caring, and attachment
Loving
A state of intense emotional and physical longing for union with another
Passionate love
An intense form of liking defined by emotional investment and deeply intertwined lives
Companionate love
A chosen interpersonal involvement forged through communication in which the participants perceive the bond as romantic
Romantic relationship
A strong psychological attachment to a partner and an intention to continue the relationship long into the future
Commitment
When we are involved in intimate relationships, we often experience competing impulses, or tensions, between ourselves and our feelings towards others known as
Relational dialects
We view beautiful people as competent communicators, intelligent, and well-adjusted, a phenomenon known as the
Beautiful-is-good effect
We tend to form long-term romantic relationships with people we judge as similar to ourselves and physical attractiveness
Matching
Scientific evidence suggests that we are attracted to those we perceive as similar to ourselves
Birds-of-a-feather effect
Whether the person we are attracted to makes it clear, through communication and other actions, that the attraction is mutual, known as
Reciprocal liking
Purposes that you’ll feel drawn to those you see as offering substantial benefits (things you like and want) with few associate cost (things demanded of you in return)
Social exchange theory
Once you’ve experienced attraction because of perceived rewards, the balance of benefits and cost exchange by you and the other person, known as _____, determines whether a relationship will take root
equity
During the ______ stage, you size of a person you just met or noticed
Initiating stage
Once you initiate an encounter with someone else (online or face-to face), you enter the ______ stage during which you exchange demographic information (names, majors, where you grew up).
Experimenting stage
You and your partner begin to reveal previously withheld information, such as secrets about your past or important life dreams and goals
Intensifying stage
Your and your partners personalities seem to become one
Integrating stage
A public ritual of that announces to the world that you and your partner have made a commitment to one another
Bonding stage
The beliefs, attitudes, and values that distinguish you from your partner come to dominate your thoughts and communication
Differentiating stage
When circumscribing becomes so severe that almost no safe controversial topics remain, communication slows to a standstill, and your relationship enters the
Stagnating stage
One or both of you decide that you no longer can be around each other, and you begin distancing yourself physically
Avoiding stage
Couples might discuss the past, present, and future of the relationship
Terminating stage
Refers to using communication and supportive behaviors to sustain a desired relationship status and level of satisfaction
Relational maintenance
Is defined as an act that goes against expectations of a romantic relationship and, as a result, causes pain to a partner
Romantic betrayal
A protective reaction to a perceived threat to a valued relationship
Jealousy
A person deliberately uses messages, photos, and post to try and_____ him or herself between partners in a romantic couple because he or she is interested in one of the partners
Wedging
The violation of one’s independence and privacy by a person who desires an intimate relationship
Relational intrusion
Is a network of people who share their lives over long periods of time and are Bonded by marriage, blood, or commitment; who consider themselves as family, and share a significant history and anticipated future of functioning in a family relationship
Family