Unit 3 - Coping with Change Flashcards
Influence
To affect or change someone in an important way
Reasons and example for change
Changing friends (nothing in common) Break up with boyfriend (no love) Divorce or death of loved one Change schools Different sport
Why is it important to communicate when it comes to change
Because you are becoming more independent , have your own ideas and questions how and why things are done, you may come into conflict with parents
What does communication help with
Let your parents know you can look after yourself responsibly.
Let your parents know what your plans are (show that you can look after yourself and act responsibly).
Talk to adults you trust when you’re unsure.
Learn to be a good listener to friends.
Say how you feel so others understand.
Keep a journal and write things down.
Communicating on the internet
Don’t post things when you’re angry (can’t take it back).
Don’t give out personal information to strangers.
If you want to meet someone from the internet do it in a public place and bring a friend.
How can friends have a positive impact on your life ?
Introduce you to new ideas, interests, music, friends.
Get you involved in youth, sports, music or community groups.
Make you feel like you belong.
Make you feel more secure because you know they understand you.
Give you the chance to negotiate with others.
Understand how you feel because they also go through challenges.