Test 2 Flashcards
What is “passing”?
Presenting a false image of being heterosexual
what is a dominant homosexual referred to as?
Butch
What is a submissive homosexual referred to as?
Femme
What is sequential bisexuality?
Sex solely with one gender, followed by sex solely with the other
What is the condition characterized by a low interest in sex?
Asexual
What are the biological factors that try to explain sexual orientation?
- Genetic DNA markers, genes, chromosomes, neuroanatomy
- Hormone (prenatal), androgen levels
- Brain structure contributions (cerebral hemisphere size, markers in the hypothalamus)
- Birth order (maternal immune hypothesis)
What are the psychological and sociological perspectives on sexual orientation?
- Developmental
- Life experiences
- Learned rewards/punishment
- Body images
- unhappy heterosexual experiences, seduction, smothering, passive/dominant parents, absent father
- different traits
What % of males and females are gay?
- 3-4% of males are gay
- 1-3% of females are lesbian
- 2-5% identify as bisexual
What is the Alfred Kinsey model?
Describes sexual behavior on a linear 7-point scale that suggests sexuality is a fluid and continuous variable
What is the Michael Storm model?
Conceptualizes sexual orientation on a two-dimensional grid with one axis representing high to low heteroeroticism and the cross axis representing high-to-low homoeroticism
What is the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid?
Took the Kinsey Continuum further by including more dimensions and to see if it’s changed over time
Is there a difference in sexual orientation of homosexual parenting compared to heterosexual parenting?
No
What is the gay parenting statistics?
- 1 in 3 lesbians have given birth
- 1 in 6 gay men have fathered or adopted
Who is the last person to find out about sexual orientation?
Parents. Usually 26% are forced to leave home
When do people develop a sexual orientation?
- 80% develop by teen years
- come out much later
What is the rejecting-punitive stance of Christianity?
- believes homosexuality is a sin
- unconditionally rejects it
- bears a punitive attitude toward gay people
What is the rejecting-nonpunitive stance of Christianity?
- believes homosexuality is inherently unnatural and must be condemned
- but because of God’s grace, the homosexual person must not be condemned
What is the qualified acceptance stance of Christianity?
- believes that homosexuality is a sin
- acknowledges that homosexuality is largely unsusceptible to change by contemporary medical and psychological science
- homosexuals should maintain fully committed relationships
What is the full acceptance stance of Christianity?
- believes sexuality is intrinsically important for the capacity of love
- ethical sexual relationships include a commitment to each other regardless of the sex of the partner
What are examples of nonverbal communications?
majority of communication!!
- facial expressions
- hand and arm gestures
- postures, body positioning
- speech rates
What % of college students log on to FB multiple times a day?
80%
What are genderlects?
We learn different ways and rules of communicating
What are the common ways men communicate?
- less likely to share painful feelings
- try to go for quick and easy solutions
- more forceful
- loud and demanding
- self-protective
- interrupt more frequently
- REPORT TALK
What are the common ways women communicate?
- more emotional in their communication
- want to share
- take longer to share
- listen without interruption
- want to talk about feelings
- RAPPORT TALK
- tag questions
- use more nonverbal
What is an affectively oriented communication skill?
more comforting and involve significant amounts of listening, more valued by women
What is an instrumentally oriented communication skill?
More persuasive and narrative, more valued by men
What are the two primary goals of communication?
- get the job done: send the message
- Relational goal: maintain a relationship
T/F: Silence and body language can convey as much as 65% of your message.
TRUE
What is active listening?
- maintaining eye contact
- showing we understand the other person’s feelings and ideas
What is effective listening
- suspending one’s personal reactions and feelings
- tuning into the speaker’s viewpoints
What is nondefensive listening?
- focusing your attention on what your partner is saying without being defensive
What is romantic or erotic love?
Physically and emotionally intense love that often leads to a binding partnership, sexual, passionate, longing, desire, intimacy