Talk To Anybody Flashcards
Flooding smile
Don’t smile immediately.
Wait a second
Study their face
Flood them with a smile
Sticky Eyes
Look at them a little longer then look away
Women only
Epoxy Eyes
Watch your target even if someone else is talking.
Hang by your teeth
Walk into a room as if you are about to clench your teeth on a bit hanging from the roof
Big baby pivot
Greet everyone like a child. Full attention and excitement
Hello old friend
Greet new people as if they were an old friend
Limit the figit
Hand motions and fidgeting give impression that you are lying
Hans horse sense
Pay attention to listener reaction
Watch the scene before you make the scene
Visualise how you will greet somebody before you do
Mood match
Take a moment to sample your targets mood. See if they look bored, buoyant or blitzed. Match their voice and tone if only for a moment
Prosaic with passion
Say anything with passion to start a conversation
Whatzit
Always wear a whatzit to encourage conversation
Notice others who wear one too
Whoozat
Ask the party giver who a contact is and pump for information
Eavesdrop In
Eavesdrop to other conversations and listen for a hook to join in
Never a naked city
When asked where you are from answer with a fact about your city
Never the naked city
Don’t just say what you do. Through out a related fact to help with the conversation
Never the naked city
Don’t just say what you do. Through out a related fact to help with the conversation
Never a naked introduction
When introducing someone, say something about them to get the conversation going.
Word Detective
Listen to your conversation partners words to detect an interest for conversation
Swivelling Spotlight
Imagine a giant spotlight. Keep if focused on the other person as long as you can
Parroting
Repeat the last few words somebody has said. It encourages them to expand and feel engaged in the conversation
Encore
Encourage someone in a group to retell a story you know is good