Steps and Stages Flashcards
How many stages are there in EFT?
3
How many steps are there in EFT?
9
How many steps are there in stage 1?
4
How many steps are there in stage 2?
3
How many steps are there in stage 3?
2
What is stage one?
De-escalation of negative cycles of interaction
What is stage two?
Re-structuring the bond
(formerly changing interactional positions
What is stage three?
Consolidation
formerly consolidation and integration
Which stage is de-escalation?
one
Which stage is re-structuring the bond?
two
Which stage is consolidation?
three
What is step one?
Creating an alliance and delineating conflict issues in the core attachment struggle
Which step is: Creating an alliance and delineating conflict issues in the core attachment struggle?
One
What is step two?
Identifying the negative interactional cycle where these issues are expressed.
Which step is: Identifying the negative interactional cycle where these issues are expressed?
Two
What is step three?
Accessing the unacknowledged emotions underlying interactional positions.
Which step is: Accessing the unacknowledged emotions underlying interactional positions?
three
What is step four?
Reframing the problem in terms of the negative cycle, underlying emotions, and attachment needs.
The cycle is framed as the common enemy and the source of the partners’ emotional deprivation and distress.
Which step is: Reframing the problem in terms of the negative cycle, underlying emotions, and attachment needs. The cycle is framed as the common enemy and the source of the partners’ emotional deprivation and distress?
Four
What is step 5?
Promoting identification with disowned attachment emotions, needs, and aspects of self and integrating these into relationship interactions.
Which step is: Promoting identification with disowned attachment emotions, needs, and aspects of self and integrating these into relationship interactions?
Five
What is step 6?
Promoting acceptance of the partner’s experience and new interactional responses.
Which step is: Promoting acceptance of the partner’s experience and new interactional responses?
Six
What is step 7?
Facilitating the expression of needs and wants and creating emotional engagement and bonding events that redefine the attachment between partners.
Which step is: Facilitating the expression of needs and wants and creating emotional engagement and bonding events that redefine the attachment between partners?
Seven
What is step 8?
Facilitating the emergence of new solutions to old relationship problems.
Which step is: Facilitating the emergence of new solutions to old relationship problems?
Eight
What is step 9?
Consolidating new positions and new cycles of attachment behaviours.
Which step is: Consolidating new positions and new cycles of attachment behaviours?
Nine
What is the primary objective of steps 1 & 2?
To create a therapeutic alliance
What 3 skills are most used in steps 1 & 2?
Reflection
Validation
Reframing & catching the bullet
What does Sue Johnson call Stage 2 in her 2017 PCEP article?
restructuring attachment
SJ 2017 PCEP
which step is the last stage of the process in which new emotional experience and expression are used to change interactional positions and so restructure interactions
Step 7
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
in which Step do Withdrawer Re-Engagement and Blamer Softening occur?
Step 7
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
which comes first - completed Blamer Softening or established Withdrawer Re-Engagement?
Withdrawer Re-Engagement
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
In which step might someone say ‘I feel small and inept with you, and live in fear of you really seeing this and leaving me, so I go numb and placate.’?
Step 5
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
In which Step might someone say ‘I am tired of numbing out, I want to feel special to you. I want you to hold off on the criticism and quit threatening to leave. I’m not going to feel small in the relationship anymore.’?
Step 7
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
In Step 7 what kind of needs does a partner express?
what they need in order to feel safe and connected in the relationship
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
How is Step 7 based on Steps 5 & 6?
In Step 7 the new emotional experience of Step 5, which has been integrated into relationship interactions in Step 6, is used to restructure the relationship.
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
In which Step are the clients starting to take on more and more initiative - with the therapist becoming less active but encouraging and redirecting as necessary?
Step 7
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
In which Step is a Withdrawer most likely to say ‘If I really showed her who I am she’d finally see how pathetic I am’?
Step 5
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
In which Step is a Withdrawer likely to say ‘I want to feel desired, like I might be someone you like to be with. I want you to help me learn about how to be close’?
Step 7
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
In which Step is the observing partner most likely to be saying ‘You expect me to believe that? You never told me that before… It seems so sad…’?
Step 6
Creating Connection, SJ, 2004
