Socialize | Human Interaction Flashcards
How do you make the person you are talking to feel?
Beautiful, Alive, Respected, Valuable, Loved
Make the person feel seen. I see you
See beyond Visual Filter
See the Energy that is powering the person
See the person’s dreams
See the Person’s vibe
See the person’s soul
See the person’s frequency
Let person drop guard around you
No Judgement
What am I projecting?
My projection is getting rejected
What Energy am I projecting
How do you say things?
Lines with no emotion. Put soul in it
See the world from a different lens
There is a whole world and communities of human race wanting to connect with one another
Why am I hesitant?
Speak w/o any hesitancy, fear, apprehension, anxiety, feeling of wanting something, feeling of being inferior,
seeing her just from the lens of attractiveness
No more staring and choking
Because: you are looking at this girl from ‘She is so hot. I want to fuck her’ lens
Change the lens to ‘Goofy, Silly, Playful childhood friend’ lens
Light Up
Light Up other person when interacting
Let the person shine
Let the person glow
Nbr 1 Skill
To be able to socialize and talk to anyone
Accent
Posh New York Accent
Changing the way you speak and the way people hear you changes the way people perceive you
How do you want to be perceived?