Social Psychology #2 Flashcards
Factors that underlie attraction
- Repeated contact and the mere-exposure effect
- Physical attraction
- Similarity and homogamy
- Reciprocity (effort with each other)
Types of Love:
Romantic or Passionate Love:
“Wildly romantic state, tender and sexual feelings, elation and pain, anxiety and relief, altruism and jealousy coexist in a confusion of feelings.”
Key Elements: Obsession, Wildly fluctuating emotions and physiological arousal in the presence of love
Types of Love:
Companionate Love
“Affection we feel for those whom our lives are deeply entwined”
Key Elements: Companionship, mutual trust and care
Types of Love:
Parental Love
- Mother-Child bond is universal
- Good evolutionary reasons to assume a considerable genetic contribution
- Infant strategies for “being loveable” include smiling, looking cute etc
STUDY: Janowiak & Fischer (1992)
Romantic or Passionate Love
Study of 168 Cultures found evidence of romantic love in nearly 90% with the evidence unclear for the rest
However, people in individualist cultures appear to put more emphasis on love as the basis for marriage
Lantz, Schultz & O’Hara 1977:
Found a steady increase in themes in USA Magazines between 1741 and 1865:
- Love at first sight
- We will only ever have one true love
True love will conquer all
There is a perfect match for us
- We must be true to our hearts rather than our heads
Romantic love involves..
Arousal and a set of emotions and beliefs (cognitions). People who are ‘in love’ also tend to behave in particular ways.
Romeo and Juliet Effect
Parental opposition can intensify passionate attraction
Averill and Boothroyd 1977
85 Subjects aged 18-45 (M & F)
Given newspaper accounts of Floyd and Ellen and examples of ‘great romances’.
Asked to rate own most intense love experience in terms of its resemblance to the ‘romantic ideal’.
Results:
- 40% at each of the extreme ends of scale
- Written descriptions of their experiences were coded, and it was found that there was no clear difference between the descriptions of those who rate their experience high or low on resemblance to the romantic ideal
Romantic love as a syndrome:
Idealisation of the other, suddenness of onset, observing thoughts, willingness to make sacrifices
WALSTER STUDY 1966
Physical Attractiveness:
Study of 752 University students
- The factor measured that the strongest relationship to their desire to date their parents in the future, for both men and women, was physical attractiveness.
Matching Hypothese:
People tend to settle into relationships with others who have a similar level of physical attractiveness as themselves. We kind of intuitively know what level we are. People with similar levels of physical attractiveness more likely last.
Physical Attractiveness subjective?
Langlois and Roggman (1990)
Computer generated ‘average’ (symmetrical) faces are more attractive than real faces
- Cross cultural studies show evidence of considerable agreement on human facial attractiveness (note: There is must less agreement of body attractiveness/more complex)
- However, judgments of attractiveness are influenced by other characteristics, behaviour etc increases physical attractiveness
(ie. if you can’t be good looking, be nice) - Symmetry of face historically signifies good health, good nutrition of uterus.
Evolutionary Arguments of physical attractiveness
The importance of physical attractiveness in sexual attraction and partner choice is often argued to have an evolutionary basis in indicating good health
BUT partner choice is more complex than physical health, even from a evolutionary perspective
Differential Parental Investment
A women tends to make a greater investment in any single pregnancy and child than a man (certainly biologically)
The cost of sex is potentially huge to a women and minimal to a man
BUSS 1989)
Studied men and women from 37 cultures
Findings: Kindness and intelligence is valued by both genders
Men prefer
- Traits that signify Fertility (symmetrical face, smooth skin, 7:10 waist-hip ratio)
- Younger women (more fertile)